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> I'm ready for sex, I think. I'm a 17 year old guy from Scotland. I feel like I'm ready for sex but there is one problem, I've never done anything sexual with a girl. Any tips on how to start off?

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Find, read, and begin practicing the sticky post entitled The Program.

Might as well try to start off enjoying sex correctly.

i was just before 17 when i lost my virginity.. and i tell u now i regretted it ever since..
i am now 21 and have met a new man and we are v v happy and he lost his virginity too me and i liked the fact that i am the only woman he has been with.. i only wish i could have waited 4 him.
trust me u will know when the time is right? why rush things? would u rather it was something u can remember and treasure 4 life??... or something ud rather forget? i know what id choose!!!.. if i had my time again that is!!! x

Are you ready to tell your father that he is about to become a grandfather? First, learn the ways to protect both you and your partner.

Yes it is ego-boosting knowing that your husband hasn't got a clue what to do when you throw yourself into his arms. But then again, whatever you do will seem wonderful since, of course, he cannot compare you, and your performance, to anyone else. Yes, I can see how that might make life nice for you.

I got rid of my virginity at age 11 and have never regretted it. Life has been a Party! Fortunately, I married an experienced mature man whose ego didn't require cosseting.

I counsel doing your prep work and getting on with life, ScottishAndProud

Well, having a first time with someone you trust, and someone who is experienced definitely helps. That was my first time actually. I would recommend getting comfortable with your body first with masterbation. Then if you feel its time, and you want to try it out. Ask your friend, or find the "perfect girl". Only you can decide if you are ready.

"The Right Girl" - well, that's all very nice and romantic but you're not 13 any more. Most marriage-minded women prefer their future husbands to have some experience. According to the latest survey (2008) - 6 to 8 previous sexual partners. Waiting may not be your best plan.

If the lady wants you and you're happy about it - go for it!

dcman - the word is MASTURBATION - it is a U not an e

Evil kitten you sure know how to crack the whip.

Scott your 17, chances are that the girl you lose your virginity to will not be the one you marry, go with your friend, its someone you know, trust and feel comfortable around.
Just make sure its something you will enjoy remembering meaning in a bedroom with privacy (no drinking, bathroom stalls, etc) if your going to do something do it properly.

And most importantly be responsible take all the proper precautions as Brandye would advise and be mature about it, you don't want to lose your friend as a result.

Enjoy.

its v true what people are saying scot.. my main feeling is theres no hurry.. i mean as i say i was younger n i hav regretted it but it was with a gd friend on mutual terms.. as other people have written its unlikely ur gunna marry the 1st person u have sex with so there would be no harm done? just make sure both parties are happy with ur decision and be safe

No hurry? Hmmm. I'd not be too sure about that. He's got university/employment/business to get going and he has to think about getting his family underway as well. And he's got about 10 to 15 years to do it in if he's not to get behind the power curve. Because he'll want college expenses to hit right when he enters his peak earning years in his 40's and 50's. That way the kids will be out of the house and he and his wife can get on with their lives again - and play!