I'm a girl and my best friend is a guy..with a girlfriend. The girlfriends a year younger then me and the best friend is a year old. One night when i was talking with my best friend we both confessed that we had feelings for eachother. All the sudden we started to hang out alone, not telling anyone that we were together. We started our own little secret relationship, but when i talk to him about breaking up with his girlfriend he says he is afraid to. I know i should leave him, but i like him so much and he treats me so well. He says his girlfriend would kill herself if he broke up with her. WHAT DO I DO! i think im in love with him, but how can i be if hes the type of guy to do this to girls. helppp me please! i dont no what i should do.:confused:
Sun, 02/04/2007 - 21:56
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Im the other girl, what do i do!
he's having his cake and eating it too
solution is simple - stop feeding him and dump him!
If he did it to her (the girlfriend), he'll do it to you if you are his gf!!!
nice way of putting it sera. yeah if it happens once itll happen another time
What is so different about this story and the many many adulteries going on in marriages, except for age and vows?
There are two things a responsible respectable person does not want to do when it comes to relationships:
a) date the ex of a best friend
b) become the third wheel in a relationship built for two
> Im the other girl, what do i do!
MOVE ON.
Your choices are:
1. learn to share and see others like he is doing
2. move on and not look back
3. continue as you are and stop whining about it
Your choice, girl.
[QUOTE=mcsgirl;165797]he's having his cake and eating it too
solution is simple - stop feeding him and dump him![/QUOTE]
she is right. I mean he is kind of jerking you around, doesnt that make you feel crummy?