I'm a Nympho, and I'm currently dating a wonderfull man, we both love each other very much, how ever the problem is that after we have sex once, he cant get errect later on in the day. When he does keep it up, he finishes in ten minutes. am I just bad in bed? I mean, he says its not my fault, but I cant help but feel bad. he's told me I'm not the best he's ever had either, and I want to become it. (I've been working on Kegal(sp?) exorsises, butI dont think its been working) What can I do? Is there somthing I can do to make him want me more, and satisfy both him, and my needs? 
Sun, 06/05/2005 - 04:03
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I'm a Nympho... and in need of advise
that last answer is good but it depends on the guy. when you tease a guy sometimes when hes really going all he wants to do is finish. I like lilly's answer of him being an *&%#^! for telling you hes had better. if he cared about you he would be like "your the best" (little white lie, but its the same as "does these pants make my butt look bug?") and worry about your feelings. he seems a little self interested. (cares more about himself than others). if he is going to be that way I say you should concentrate on pleasing yourself, at least until his atitude changes. And if he gets pissed at you for not pleasing him...... well its a two way street.
hi, im a nympho too, and let me tell you what i do maybe it will help. first get a few toys for you. start off slow like sucking him, then tell him to lube up a dildo and slide it in you. go slow on him so he don't get overloaded with pleasure. then what i do is let him watch me suck on another dildo and him (alternating). after a while (10 minutes) ride him and before he cums get off. let him slide a dildo in you for your pleasure. then start licking him again then let him in you doggie ect ect go slow very slow.
Some men have longer recovery times than others. We women have no recovery time! Being "nympho" as you self-diagnose is not a physical malady, it is a psychological problem. I truly doubt that you are.
More time spent on you prior to insertion may be helpful. Bringing you off a few times orally, digitally, with toys or whatever first could help. Upon orgasm, the male brain secretes hormones that make men drowsy. As long as they are leading up to something, they keep humming. Upon ejaculation, some are just plain done.
Any man who tells you that he's had better is an ass. Sorry, but he sure sounds like one.
He cums in 10 minutes? Welllll, that's not your fault. I'm assuming you're saying something because he cums so quickly? It sounds like he needs to learn control. The more you do your kegels and get tighter, the faster he will cum.
He sounds like a man who's kinda bad in bed, but wants to blame it on you.
eh ur situation sounds liek it sucks. all the advise i can give is talk to ur guy and find out what EXACTLY turns him on and go off of that. try ever position in the book. kegals are a good start but are u saying that him cumming in 10 min is bad cuz its too short or bad because its unusually long? if its cuz its too short, its cuz of the kegals. my expierence is that kegals make 'm cum faster.