Ok, well iv been with my g/f for a good few months, i really like her! Basically, i want to make sex great, im a bit over average and im up for pretty much anything but i havent tried many things! She isnt my first sexual partner, iv been with other girls but iv never had proper relationships. She seems a little timid but she isnt afraid when it comes to sex (if that makes sense). I would love to try all these different positions and all there is out there but i dont want to just do it on her and not realise shes doesnt like it. I know everyone says comunication is the key but (this will sound kind of immature) i dont really like talking about sex with her i get a little embarrassed:o ! How would you suggest i turn the love nest into a love castle ;)
Sun, 06/18/2006 - 02:23
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Im not quite sure which way to go
If you really don't want to talk to her just out of the blue, you can simply ask while your in the process. Just quietly ask "Could we try suchandsuch position?" and then, even if she says yes, keep an eye on her to see how she reacts and she really *is* ok with what's going on. That really depends on the girl whether they are able to say no to things like that. But it really isn't that big of a deal to bring it up in a conversation. :)
If you can't talk about it, you shouldn't be doing it.
Get a copy of the Joy of Sex and you two read it together. If that does not get you going, nothing will.
DOnt get me wrong Brandye, i dont mean i cant talk about it in a childish sense. I just ment it as i dont just randomly bring sex up into conversation!
Thanks for the clarification.
I always recommend that discussions take place at a time when you are not going to become intimate and when the two of you are relaxed and have time on your hands.