Anythign new, even if pleasureable, requires some practice and getting used to. You are probably fine and you will get it down soon.

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[QUOTE=theyoungboy;220637]Hi,
Im 14 just about 15 and im new to masterbating.And i am a virgin

[COLOR="Blue">As you have noticed, your mind and especially your body has been making major changes as you grow, mature, and grow out of childhood into adulthood. This process takes about a decade and won't fully complete itself until you are about twenty one. [/COLOR]

Ive masterbated about 5 or 6 times and some of them felt nice and some didnt.

[COLOR="Blue">Boys learn about masturbation at different ages, some earlier than you, some will be later. Regardless of when, we quickly develop a routine of motions, rhythms, pressures, that we pretty much rely upon for the rest of our lives. Oh sure, we will experiment with different ways and vary what we do from time to time out of curiosity and boredom, however, if we stray too far from what we know works, often we will not climax or if we do it will be less than expected. Either way, it's no big deal.

Five or six times--you are well on your way! Each boy has a different sex drive, all are normal. You may settle into doing it once or twice a week, every few days, every day, or, multiple times a day. Frequency depends upon how much stress we accumulate and also just doing it for the pure pleasure of the events. Do not get caught comparing your frequency with a buddy's because you will find more often than not that the two of you will do it more or less often than the other. There is no "normal" amount except what is normal for you--and this will change as your needs or desires change.[/COLOR]

Sme times when i masterbating it feels kinda weird when i do it. Not the nice tinggly felling.

[COLOR="Blue">This is another thing about the activity that is also normal. You'll probably learn from experimenting that your most powerful and intense orgasms are those that you do after holding off for a day or maybe two (if you can), and certainly the first one of the day. If you masturbate two, three, or more times during the day, whether they be multiples (two or more in a series within a session), or, spread out over several hours during the day, the subsequent orgasms will tend to be less and less intense. Moreover, the amount of semen you ejaculate will be less and less which is a contributing factor and why it is sometimes good to hold off.

Because we masturbate both for the pure enjoyment of it as well as to relieve stress and tension, we quickly discover that this becomes a balancing act between waiting in order to have stronger climaxes and the need to relieve tension NOW.

I recommend that you use a lubricant once in a while when you masturbate. The wetness of the lube helps make the penis more sensitive and responsive to touch. Of course it is OK to stroke dry, although, if you use a lube you'll more than likely find that masturbating is easier, the results more pleasurable, and it might shorten the time it takes, although not always particularly with subsequent ones that day.

Lubes are available off the shelf from pharmacies and super markets. You can also use household products like a couple of drops of hair conditioner and water. [/COLOR]

Im nevous sometime ad it take a long time for my climax. Last time i masterbated i took me 47 mins to cum. Is this ok?

[COLOR="Blue">I understand your nervousness. This comes from the newness of the activity and in learning your way. Of course it is OK. Am I correct in guessing that it took 47 minutes because you had done it several times before? ;) Another reason to use the lube. Now, here is an important secret:

You can never masturbate too much. If you try your body will simply refuse to respond for several hours and you'll just have to wait and give yourself time to recoup and regroup. This can take most of the day or maybe the rest of the day and night until you are good to go, again, the next morning. You won't break anything.[/COLOR]

Thanks[/QUOTE]

I hope this is of help. Here are some resources in addition to the one, above

Jackinworld

Info for Teen Boys

Scarleteen info for teen girls and boys

I hope this is helpful.

-doc