[COLOR="Plum"]ok im 15 and my boyfriend is about to turn 18 and hopefullly people dont think its weird. and he wants to do more than kissing, but im not having sex till im married and he respects that so like the only stuff we could do is fingering and stuff,and he was my first kiss, but i just dont no wat to expect like should i shave my hair down below, or keep it, see and hes more experienced then i am. but i no he wouldnt pressure me in to doing something im not comfortable doing he just wants to do more and said hell wait till im ready to do more and i am but im kinda nervous, and then the blow job stuff, i just dont no wat to expect so please HELP[/COLOR]!!!!
Sun, 03/11/2007 - 22:54
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Im nervous and dont no what to expect
Don't do ANYTHING you are not comfortable with. It will most likely lead to feelings of regret, remorse and even worse emotional problems. If you are not ready, he should not be pressuring you. Actually, he shouldn't be pressuring you at all.
Talk this over with someone you trust, and THINK about it. Again, don't do ANYTHING you are not completely comfortable with.
as i told you in the other thread i have a longdistance bf too
we haven't had sex for the past 7 months but we've had a lot of fun with other ways
if you can find some way to do it waxing would be better only becuz then you dont have to worry about stubble or having time to shave (since i only have so much time with him when i see him i dont wanna waste any time)
and know that it's okay at anytime to tell him to stop - no matter how much he may pout - that's our rule: he can try anything he wants on me but he has to be prepared to be shut down! haha
Just keep it going slow and don't get yourself into anything you are uncomfortable with. If you want to do more with him, then take it as it comes, don't rush. If you want to tidy up down south, just use a pair of scissors and trim the hair back a bit. Read about shaving and waxing before you do it, find what works best for you since it become a maintenance issue. And each has it's own draw backs, razor stubble, razor burn, painful waxing, possible infected hair follicles, etc. Once I used "Nair" just before I hopped a plane and went to Spain and what a mess when I landed. I had a rash on my legs, arms, and on the bikini line, it was horrible for 2 weeks. The point is; read and think it through before you do anything, trimming is the easiest for beginners.
If you're NOT going to have sex, leave your pubic hair alone. Just more stress in your life that you do NOT need right now when you're bf is about to become 'illegal" - or did you forget that little issue in your rush to please without really pleasing?