I have been having sex with my girlfriend for 8 months now, we are very comfatable with each other and often talk bout each others performance and ask each other questions ect.

I have never had another partner so I don?t know much a bout this, but.....

I can?t seem to find her clit, iv asked her where it is and she said she doesn?t really know what the big deal bout it is and that she doesn?t really know. iv looked a pictures and diagrams, but I swear  she hasn?t got 1. iv rubbed in the area where it should b and threes no real reaction from her. I have found the g-spot (I think) about a finger length up and on the front wall.

another thing is, above the g spot, there is a lump like a ball, (but not like a growth) quite small though, touching this also seems too work, but when I asked her bout it she said it just felt good and that she didn?t know I was touching something.

and last but not least, i'm pretty sure she can ejaculate, (don?t know how that sounds, cus don?t know how normal it is) had it a few times where the sheets r soaked and a few other times where can see it squirting out. It mostly happens when I pull out, it squirts as I pull out. It smells a bit like wee though, and isn?t sticky just wet.

any input any1