Alright, here's the scoop.
Last time my girlfriend and I had sex, I don't know WHAT was on my mind, but let's just say, I had a hard time "rising" to the occasion.
She recently told me out of nowhere that she doesn't want to have sex by way of penetration anymore. When I asked her why, at first she wouldn't say, and she didn't want to say, but I begged it out of her.....Needless to say, I was the reason. She told me that I can't satisfy her, and that everytime we have sex I'd HAVE to go down on her. Now I'm all for doing whatever I need to do to satisfy, but I've been wrestling with how to deal with the next time we DO attempt to have sex. I feel like I'll be stepping into it in a self-conscious manner. How do approach it as if she never made the comment, and most importantly how do I rise to the occasion? Mind you, she's still won't tell me, in what MANNER I don't satisfy in. I can only think of one, when dealing with penetration.
Any advice on this issue? I really need it
Short answer...DUMP her.
If she's willing to give up over that, imagine how she will behave when a real issue arises...
okay, that is ridiculous!
so you made one mistake? and she makes you feel like ****, thats messed up!
i would say if you dont want to dump her to talk to her, like a deep long emtional conversation, because when you do decide to haev sex again, THATS whats gunna be on your mind, and honestly you probably wont do a good job because your focussing on it to much,
tell her how you feel, because if shes MAKING you do this & you dont want to, how fair is that?!
If she won't tell you what is on her mind, then it's probably not worth it to pursue the relationship further.
This spells out not only a problem with your sex life, but it's also a red flag that she does not want to communicate.
Feel better about the technical difficulties, nobody is 100% all the time.
Try talking, but you may end up walking. Sorry dude.
Good luck.
i totally agree with the above..
these are some smart writers!
Run to the nearest exit and do NOT look back. Anyone who is more interested in him or herself to that extent is NOT worthy of anyone's affection.
Say "Goodbye, baby!"
Thanks so much to all of you who have responded so far.
We're in a bit of a turmoil about our relationship and I needed to clear my mind of THAT much at least. And you all are helping me get there. Again thank you!