I have a new man and I decided that if i'm going to have some kind of sex with him, it'll only be oral and anal, but he wants to do it without a condom. We're both clean, but I'm worried that if he cums in my butthole I might get pregnant. I just want to be sure that it's ok, and pther than the fact that the cum could make it to your clit, can a girl can pregnant from having cum in her a$$?
Fri, 07/09/2004 - 14:57
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If he cums in my butthole, can I get pregnant?
[QUOTE]also, even tho "technically" you would still be a virgin, i wouldn't consider you one. just b/c you weren't penetrated vaginally, you were penetrated.
if we were that technical, then a guy penetrates u orally too inside your mouth, but i'm gonna do a lot of thinking before i make that decision without being sure because i've heard about the infections a person can get in their intestines, with or without a condom.
yeah but theres a big difference when it goes in your mouth.
it doesn't hurt.
w/ your vagina or anus the holes are smaller and something much larger is going inside.
well i wouldn't advise your first time being anal. its not that great. it can be but sometimes it can be bad.
especially for those who are not experienced.
also, even tho "technically" you would still be a virgin, i wouldn't consider you one. just b/c you weren't penetrated vaginally, you were penetrated.
another girl on here was asking the same thing. she wanted to remain a "virgin" but satisfy her b/f and herself so she was going to substitute vaginal w/ anal. she finally opted to wait for both.
i mean if you trust a guy and want to be intimate enough to have anal, then i don't understand why you wouldn't just have sex. to me anal is a much bigger step, but i guess its different for everyone.
if you are just looking to avoid pregnancy why not just have regular safe sex. or even safer anal w/ a condom.
but why?? are you trying to remain a "virgin" by not having vaginal?
have you ever had anal?
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I've never had anal sex. I am trying to remain a virgin, but I'm an adult and I also want to enjoy myself with someone else in other ways. I'm definitely gonna get him to use a condom.
I'll not do my whole bit on anal sex. That is in the Golden Posts. To simply answer your question: Yes, you can get pregnant.
The tissues in the rectum absorb very little of the semen. Therefore, it mostly leaks out. There is a very short distance between your anus and your vaginal entrance. It is virtually certain that some sperm will end up in your vagina. That is how you get pregnant.
Anal sex is not medically a good practice. Assuming you will, always use a condom for protecting both of you. Even if you are disease free, the bowels are teeming with bacteria and will fill his urethra. Entero-bacteria (those that usually live in the intestines) are the prime cause for urethritis and prostatitis. If you cram them up the urethra, there is a high likelihood of infection.
Assuming everything works, do you want to take that penis into your vagina or mouth any time in the next day?
Also, since he's a new man, you do want to use a conom. Also, then you do anal, it is suggested and far safer for the guy to use a condom to prevent him from getting any infections and fun stuff like that. Also, the decision is yours, not his entirily. I would say, if you do want to use a condom then put it to him this way, that he either wears a condom or he doens't get any from you. Don't let him talk you into something you don't feel too well about. Stand your ground if needed.
I agree with what LittleFury says about it being your choice. And really just because you might be "clean" is not a reason to not use a condom for anal sex. Think about where it is going. You can get all kinds of infections.
Now if you do decide not to use one for heaven's sake don't stick it in your vagina or mouth before it has been washed.
[QUOTE=Quote (thetease13 @ July 09 2004,09:32)]HOWEVER, if the cum drips/oozes down over your vagina and whatnot, you CAN become pregnant because some cum can actually make it's way into the vaginal hole.[/QUOTE]
this is very likely.
i forgot where Brandye had posted it, but she explained how when a guy cums in your vagina, the tissues in there are more absorbant. so just a little dribbles out. and trust me, its a pretty good bit.
the tissue in the anus is less absorbant than that in the vagina so it dribbles a lot.
if you are just looking to avoid pregnancy why not just have regular safe sex. or even safer anal w/ a condom.
but why?? are you trying to remain a "virgin" by not having vaginal?
have you ever had anal?
if you at least decide to do the anal w/out a condom, don't be in the doggy position. do it w/ at least you on your back so when the cum does leak out, and trust me it does, it will be dripping towards your back, not your vagina.
i remember the first time my b/f and i had anal and he came in ass. he pulled out and just had this shocked looked on his face b/c all this cum was coming out...lol. he was like, i didn't know it was gonna do that.
but i was on the pill as well.
no..... your reproduction organs are not in your butt.
it's like swallowing cum. you can't get pregnant by that. your reproduction organs are not in your throat.
HOWEVER, if the cum drips/oozes down over your vagina and whatnot, you CAN become pregnant because some cum can actually make it's way into the vaginal hole.