My boyfriend and never really turn me on. Even when we make out and everything i can never get horny. I mean hes not ugly or anything and I love this kid more than anything but I wanted to no why.
We have sex and I mean its okay not great but okay but it just never seems like i want to have sex anymore.
Life has been okay but not great so could that be a reason?
Help me please
No chemistry. Find someone who you have it with and someone you are sexually compatible with.
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This thread really isn't about your question...but the topic of chemistry is brought up
You are with the wrong guy. You may not know much about your body and its' responses, either.
Maybe you are having a 'down' moment in your life and its making you look at your boyfriend, maybe it'a time you moved on!
It just sounds like you're not attracted to him sexually, sure you probably enjoy his company and all but that extra spark doesn't seem to be there.
To sum up all these similar conclusions--it sounds like you two can be best friends rather than friends with benefits.