Yes, I am in a relationship. After seeing some of the things on this site I have coome up with an idea of something to do, which i think should prove rather enjoyable to her. However, before I attempt it, I thought I'd get y'alls input...
Basically it works like this...
I have her lying in her back, feet down, knees up, pelvis raised and her legs spread. I sharpen my tongue and, periodically changing the shape, pressure, etc, begin to stimulate her clitoris and the surrounding region. While doing this, I slide my indx and middle fingers into her unil I find her G-spot. At that time, I replace my middle fignger withmy thumband pull down te flesh of her vaginal wall, pinching it gently and slowly motioning with my fingers (like when you motion with your thumb and finger represent money), while the whole time sucking gently on the entirety of the region. While doing all this I either (A)pleasure her anally with my fingers or a device or (B) raise my left hand up and pleasure her breasts some how, depending on whether or not she enjoys anal entry....
So, sound good?..... Is there something that should be different?
You sound like an engineering student preparing a project. Just do what each of you want and follow the others' lead, then TALK about it.
Too many newbies get into G-spots and other fancy stuff. Not ten percent of all women have ever had their G-spot stimulated and many spend hours with a patient partner - maybe successfullt and maybe not. There are some golden posts or whatever about this. Read them.
In the meantime, as a beginner, if you each simply learn how to masturbate the other you will be accomplishing much more than developing a battle plan. It is quite a natural act that we all look forward to with dread and high expectation. For the human race to be where we are, several billion have figured it out without books and the web and fancy instructions. Protect yourselves and enjoy.
Most of this sounds like it could work but...
[QUOTE=Quote (A Soldare @ May 15 2003,11:01)]At that time, I replace my middle fignger withmy thumband pull down te flesh of her vaginal wall, pinching it gently and slowly motioning with my fingers (like when you motion with your thumb and finger represent money)[/QUOTE]
Ouch!
would love to find that elusive,g.spot,maybe there is something wrong with me ,but have felt for it and no luck,have heard where it is ,but its like the scarlett pimpernell not there alas they seek it here they seek it there oh where is that elusive big G SPOT
I've been haveing sex for a while and never been able to find the big "G" on my g/f. Though the search has been very productive on some other way. So let me now if you find it.
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Also I just want to add that the important thing is to have fun
[QUOTE=Quote (A Soldare @ May 15 2003,11:01)]Yes, I am in a relationship. After seeing some of the things on this site I have coome up with an idea of something to do, which i think should prove rather enjoyable to her. However, before I attempt it, I thought I'd get y'alls input...
Basically it works like this...
I have her lying in her back, feet down, knees up, pelvis raised and her legs spread. I sharpen my tongue and, periodically changing the shape, pressure, etc, begin to stimulate her clitoris and the surrounding region. While doing this, I slide my indx and middle fingers into her unil I find her G-spot. At that time, I replace my middle fignger withmy thumband pull down te flesh of her vaginal wall, pinching it gently and slowly motioning with my fingers (like when you motion with your thumb and finger represent money), while the whole time sucking gently on the entirety of the region. While doing all this I either (A)pleasure her anally with my fingers or a device or (B) raise my left hand up and pleasure her breasts some how, depending on whether or not she enjoys anal entry....
So, sound good?..... Is there something that should be different?[/QUOTE]
I would enjoy this very much so. ;)