You may be able to get her extremely wet, but I am doubting orgasm.. with the dry humping at least. Me and my girlfriend have done that quite a bit, and it gets her very wet, and what not.. but I have yet to get her to orgasm by strictly dry humping. There are also other, non-sexual ways to get her wet. Try finding her sweet spots, and kissing them/touching them softly. That is always good to turn her on.

its different for every girl
theres been times ive gotten extremely wet from just heavy intense make out sessions...no touching down there at all. just depends on how turned on she gets.

i dunno if its possible to orgasm from breast stimulation alone i never have but some girls may have...it depends on the girl once again. some chicks have extremely sensitive breasts and nipples.. others hardly feel anything.
i myself dont get much from just groping and touching thru the bra... i need direct nipple stimulation usually from sucking and licking them.

um yeah i think u already said them
theres a huge post on dry humping and well only other thing is using your hands to stimulate her down there.

I have the same problem am 13 a definately not ready for sex and dont really want to even do somin like dry humping but my bf thinks its great but i dont get anything from it is there anything else i can do?

It is great to read about teens who are not ready for intercourse, oral, and other very intimate sexual acts.

Please go to the Index, found at the top of the main screen. It contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common concerns people ask us about. There are several that discuss kissing and making out, determining how far to go, when to try and go farther, and a whole lot of other information that is handy to know. Please read these articles and discuss what you have learned with your girlfriend or boyfriend.

As for fooling around and making out there is a whole lot of useful information in at least two of the articles. The main thing is taking time both in how fast you progress from one form of kiss or caress to another; AND, for how fast you progress with regard for intimacy and going further. All too often boys especially are in a big rush to get as far as possible as fast as possible and this is understandable, yet it is absolutely the worst approach for turning a girl on and for getting her all excited and wet to address the issue, above.

It is important to understand that while boys can be up and ready in a matter of minutes, not so girls. In order for their interest to be piqued and then peaked, the two must devote no less than half an hour and longer within reason if time and interest are there to simply kissing, caressing, whispering sweet nothings, cuddling, etc., and in stages in order to prepare her for an orgasm. This is one of the differences between the genders.

There are two old terms that have fallen into disuse recently. The first is "going around the bases", the other are the names for various forms of making out:

* Necking-
Kissing and caressing above the shoulders

* Petting-
Kissing and caressing each other's body without (partially) undressing or touching the erogenous zones such as the breasts and genital area

* Heavy Petting-
All of the above but including at first the breasts, then later as the couple develops more trust and intimacy, the genitals. These are first fondled and caressed thru the out layer of clothing, then thru underware, then directly.

How far and how fast depends much on how comfortable you are with each other. Often these different stages can and should take months.

* Foreplay-
Hand job/manual stimulation of each other's genitals
Oral stimulation of each other's genitals
Both when nearing a climax
Anal play that may include prostate massage for the boy

* Intercourse-
This begins when both have been adequately prepared and not before the girl invites the boy. All too often boys nowadays operate under the misguided misconception that the best way to get to an orgasm is from lots and Lots of stroking. Wrong. This is what all the fooling around and making out are for. first and foremost.

Please read the articles on all this for more information on how each of you can be a great lover.

It is important for boys/men to understand that while an orgasm is a basic necessity or imperative for the male of species, not so for females of the species. Climaxing and enjoying orgasms is not a requirement for women. Girls can fully enjoy fooling around, making out, and, foreplay, without experiencing orgasms. So, guys, while it is certainly a nice thing to strive for, do not be disappointed if your girlfriend did not or cannot climax.

There is much more on this topic in the articles that discuss the female "O".

After doing your "homework" and reading the articles and discussing the information with each other, please do not hesitate to ask additional questions, this is why this site exists; namely, to make life much easier that it was for those of us who have gone before. So, got questions?

thanks that was really helpful!

It was a girl that first got me dry humping. When she was laying on top of me it felt great to feel her laying against my stiff cock in my pants. I could feel every slight movement she made. But then she surprised me and spread her legs and started to move her hips. It really felt good and she started to pant and grind even harder into me. It lasted a while and then we got interupted. But she eventually humped me long enough to ejaculate in my pants. I was grateful to what she taught me and the joy of humping.

I'm not sure I understand one thing. If you're not ready for sex, why foreplay? It's starting a fire you can't put out!

Rouge - her bf wants it. Now how many times have we heard that? "My bf wants it" can be code, of course, for "I want it but I have to maintain my air of innocence and of being a good girl" but mostly it is built around "I feel I must please someone else".

I never had any use for 'dry humping' myself.