Hey,
I had a little wrestling with a female friend, and durring that i tried to pull her pents down which succeeded and open her skirt, eventually she stopped resisting and i asked her
why are you looking mad? then she says im not looking/i'm not mad, ectera, but i decided not to continue just layed down next down to her.
Is this wrong? lol, i just did it coz she kept turning me on when we were talking.
Sounds like a borderline personality disorder to me. Tease, seduce & reject. You did say she was a bit strange? I got tangled up with one of these myself and about made myself as crazy as her. My advise...run as fast as you can! Just my opinion but seems odd for her to let herself get into this sort of situation unless she enjoys being the center of attention and craves it (the attention not sex)
This may be taking the operating rule of "Implied Consent" a bit far. I suggest that the two of you sit down and have a discussion about where her boundaries are at the present time so you know just how far you can go. For more on this subject, do an advanced search using my name and the key word "implied consent".
Couldn't find it. Ah well, i personally dont think it matters alot. Was just wondering anyway that's because of this thread because it's something new to me, it's a girl who probably likes it this way and she's also a bit strange but very good looking. And im into the mood for new things since my relationship my gf broke-up recently and it she wasnt that exciting, anyway this girl she's coming often to my place in the weekends anyway it's more complicated a friend of mine and myself tried to get into her pents together but we went halfway (by doing sex games, we are young, teenagers alike) we had our pents off and did serveral sex game which included touching and stroking eachother, which she participated in 99% and wanted us (males to kiss) in return of something but we didnt do it (like in american pie 2 where the guys have to perform things on eachtother to get something with the fake lesbos) And we were like hey girl let's just have sex, there's nothing wrong with it we wont tell others, it's just pure nature. but she didn't say she didnt wanted it, she tried to ignore and said im watching tv (probably emberassing things she's afraid of that friend of mine so she didnt wanted to go on with it) eventually i said for fun hit me, so she started smashing on my face quite hard (but doesnt hurt coz it's with a flat hand) that's when i just took her arms and head so she couldnt move and my friend came and did some dry sex on her lol doggy like, and i let her lose ofcourse, but anyway they pulled there pents on coz they had to go downstairs a moment and i had mine of eventually me and her were wrestling a bit again and tried to take of her pents ect. but like i said didnt went all the way. we just layed and eventually she left (first tried to convince her to sleep at my place) ah well weird story.. :D i gues..
> Couldn't find it. Ah well, i personally dont think it matters alot.
It does matter, and that is why I brought it up. Here is another key word that will work if you do an advanced search using my name--and the key word: boundary
You will find replies in several threads that talk about how this works.
That sounds like you are getting very close to rape, or sexual assault, in my opinion. It sounds like you are going too far with things. It also sounds very immature. I would suggest that you treat her more respectfully than that. In fact, maybe it would be better if you didn't see her any more.
I have to admit; I am not sure who is stranger in the entire group of players! Your and your friends actions can be construed as "attempted" assault or rape...be careful what you are doing, what you mean as innocent can turn bad pretty quick, intended or not. You need to stop the thrill seeking (chase, catch, get hit) behavior before you have some serious trouble. She sounds off-balance, find a sane chick...
Do not do that again without a signed consent form! You did come very close to committing sexual assault. That she gave up the sturggle means nothing.
That is simply recognition that her strength was less than yours.
Stop playing violent games. Jeez! Learn sutble and sensuous play first.
[QUOTE=Old Kid;162967]Sounds like a borderline personality disorder to me. Tease, seduce & reject. You did say she was a bit strange? I got tangled up with one of these myself and about made myself as crazy as her. My advise...run as fast as you can! Just my opinion but seems odd for her to let herself get into this sort of situation unless she enjoys being the center of attention and craves it (the attention not sex)[/QUOTE]
Indeed.. i actually know her for quite a while and i know she's been trough some tough stuff, perhaps to much tough stuff a human can handle. she got teased alot, and been soft-assaulted/emberassed (Alot at younger ages, kind of school bullied, people have trowhed rocks on her, shes 20 btw) and her mom died 2 years ago (and has step mom). I find it very disturbing and sad for her and i putted myself at a position of trying to give her a good friendship, a real normal friendship, because i think i can and i want to be one her and i know the people responsible for possible her acting (so im seeing like if i can get into her mind so i can try to talk her out of doing strange seduces with weird guys, and told/explained her her previous relationship seemed unhealthy compared to mine) like that said but she seduces me. and another example i know she is (i dont know how to say it in english) but she's afraid of drinking from other glasses, bottles ecetera where someone may have drunk from and she likes attention. well totally being on the road of psychology lol but i think what you are saying might quite be possible. anyway i actually like to wrestle a girl ;) and i dont think there's something wrong with that ;) yeah i think she likes to be attention center.
lol i readed the symptons and i think the chance she has it is quite big.. ! ehm lol, well i just know she has it. im almost certain.
So, knowing all that about her, you still treated her like that! It sounds to me more like you were using your knowledge of her background for your own advantage. That is not only stupid, but dangerous, maybe for both of you.
And what's with the lol? This is not funny. (Unless you are trolling, which I am starting to suspect.)
what's trolling?
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;162966]Do not do that again without a signed consent form! You did come very close to committing sexual assault. That she gave up the sturggle means nothing.
That is simply recognition that her strength was less than yours.
Stop playing violent games. Jeez! Learn sutble and sensuous play first.[/QUOTE]
lol oh my god.
Could you imagine that?
"Before I wrestle & take your pants off again, I'm gonna need you to sign this please". HAHAHAHA!!!
[QUOTE=I_need_advice;163115]what's trolling?[/QUOTE]
Trolling is where somebody posts bogus information just to provoke responses from people. ie: Acting like a troll.
find out what she thought of it