Ok, my sex drive is HUGE recently, and if I dont have sex every other night, atleast, then I start waking up with headaches, I guess where Im frustrated.
The thing is we usually have sex in the evening when we are watching a film or afterwards when we have gone to bed.
But weeknights, my boyfriend is really tired as he works quite long hours so usually falls asleep during the film :( So Im left frustrated. He has said if I want it on a weeknight it will have to be about 7ish so that he isnt too tired but I would feel awkward just saying 'ok its 7 lets get to it' type thing. I think it would take the mood right out of it going by set times...
So, I want some plans/ideas on how to just grab him and start doing it. Tonight he will be home about 5ish, we both have baths so then its around 6ish. We have dinner then sit down about 7ish. Half 8ish a film will be put on.
So anyone got any ideas on what I could do? Im very shy so I find it hard just saying come on then I want sex now, but Im determined on this one!
I want him to really enjoy it and to surprise him.
Thanks in advance!
A. Delay dinner
B. Take your baths together and use the opportunity to soak together and let something take hold then. You can stand up, shower, and continue....
C. In reponse to "it's 7", just take the reins and begin fooling around with him in a loving way when the time is "right".
D. When he arrives home, meet him at the door and escort him to the bathroom and a warm bath already prepared.
E. When it is time to start the movie, if it is a video, put in the wrong DVD! Oops, it's X-rated--sorry 'bout that...or........
F. If he is physically tired, offer to give him a massage. If he likes the idea, begin and later transition to an erotic massage, and then.....
G. If he is a willing participant, albeit tired, then you take the initiative and let him lay back and relax while you ply your feminine wilds upon him. Most likely he won't remain passive for very long...or, even if he does, so what.
> I want some plans/ideas on how to just grab him and start doing it.
H. Do just that! When he walks in the door, grab him, pants him, and get going right where he stands. Chances are he won't be able to remain standing for very long.
Understand that he can actually be exausted and use this to your advantage. So, while you may have to take the initiate more often than not, as long as he is willing to engage, then let the fun begin.
LOL
I agree.. I'd start w/ the bath. Let him go in first.. jump in w/ him...do some foreplay there...finish it off in the shower or move it to the bedroom.
I mean it sounds like you guys already have a pretty straight forward schedule... I know since you recently have a baby... you have to be on some sort of schedule lol. So nothing wrong w/ just fitting sex into there.
I know how you b/f feels as far as my b/f gets home later than I do... so by the time he gets home I have wound down and ready for bed. I mean I probably could have sex... but I'd not feel like reciprocating... or just be there like a bump on a log...lol..and who wants that???
Oh and I like Doc option E LOL!!!
Meet him at the door - naked.
Then--
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[quote=dancingdoc2;176943]Then--
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:p[/quote]
Doc, what's this mean?
[QUOTE=sera300;176969]Doc, what's this mean?[/QUOTE]
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh brother!!!!!!!!...it means...what it means!!...ROFLMAO..
[SIZE="5">[COLOR="Blue">H.[/COLOR][/SIZE] Do just that! When he walks in the door, grab him, pants him, and get going right where he stands. Chances are he won't be able to remain standing for very long.
***see above***
Okay, so I am not up on the lingo what does "H" stand for?...and stop the laughing! :)
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;176880]A. Delay dinner
B. Take your baths together and use the opportunity to soak together and let something take hold then. You can stand up, shower, and continue....
C. In reponse to "it's 7", just take the reins and begin fooling around with him in a loving way when the time is "right".
D. When he arrives home, meet him at the door and escort him to the bathroom and a warm bath already prepared.
E. When it is time to start the movie, if it is a video, put in the wrong DVD! Oops, it's X-rated--sorry 'bout that...or........
F. If he is physically tired, offer to give him a massage. If he likes the idea, begin and later transition to an erotic massage, and then.....
G. If he is a willing participant, albeit tired, then you take the initiative and let him lay back and relax while you ply your feminine wilds upon him. Most likely he won't remain passive for very long...or, even if he does, so what.
> I want some plans/ideas on how to just grab him and start doing it.
H. Do just that! When he walks in the door, grab him, pants him, and get going right where he stands. Chances are he won't be able to remain standing for very long.Understand that he can actually be exausted and use this to your advantage. So, while you may have to take the initiate more often than not, as long as he is willing to engage, then let the fun begin.[/QUOTE]
Uhhhhhhhhhhhh read this little MBB...now killing myself laffing!!..actually giggling..;)
[quote=HardNgood;176975]Uhhhhhhhhhhhh read this little MBB...now killing myself laffing!!..actually giggling..;)[/quote]
Okay, time to get off the floor rolling with laughter! Now I understand, and thanks for interpreting the transparent! :) LOL!
[QUOTE=demonbuttercup;176883]LOL
Oh and I like Doc option E LOL!!![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Brandye;176930]Meet him at the door - naked.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;176943]Then--
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:p[/QUOTE]
:confused: See the connection I drew?
[QUOTE=sera300;176977]Okay, time to get off the floor rolling with laughter! Now I understand, and thanks for interpreting the transparent! :) LOL![/QUOTE]
LOL just a thought
What fun we will have if we all met up one day I think we will be laughing more than talking