I have a boyfriend that is spending the night for the first time in 8 months of being together. We don't have sex maybe but once every 2 to 3 weeks. We have very busy and conflicting scheduals.
Other then playing nice music and lighting candles and making him dinner what can I do to make the night more enjoyable as in more then sex once the whole night?
I plan to have longer foreplay but we seem to be done in less then an hour and I want more.. Pent up sexual desires and I don't want to be disapointed and disapoint him either.
Ugh, when do I start and how do I have a night full of fun?
Wed, 11/19/2003 - 03:02
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I want sex to last longer!!
i cant top bob's suggestions, ^5 dude, but definately start early...men need more time between 'rounds'... i would skip the going out thing tho,,,takes up too much time,,,-------- jump him when he walks in the door- then break for eats-sex-watch a dvd-sex-massage-sex-more food-more sex-you get the idea, dan
Well....if u wait till AFTER a long nite on the town, its highly unlikely you're going to have sex for 7 hours when u get back home at 2am!
So, START RIGHT AWAY! Have a bubble bath drawn and ready for when he comes to your place, have rose petals on the floor leading to the bathroom, have candles in the bathroom and all over the place and of course music.
Leave a note on the door, telling him to come in, then leave another note on the inside telling him to bring his glass, the strawberrys (with chocolate) and follow the rose petals.
When he gets to the bathroom..have him undress SLOWLY so you can watch....then just let things go!
Depending on if you DO have sex in the bathroom, you might also want to have some warm massage oil ready in the bedroom (with a big towel on the bed)..move from the bathroom to the bedroom and give each other full body massages..again...let your inhibitions go. NOW, after all that, you canclean up, dress, go out to dinner and dancing and then when u get home, you can do whatever you want AGAIN!
ps: use your dinner and dancing time to find out HOW he felt about your surprise and if there's anything else he'd like to try! That will give u fodder for future surprises!
shower together you do not have to have sex right away a woman told me one time never try for sex after the ladys has just had a big meal relax and talk and hugg kiss tell each other what you want you have all night it will take care of its self,
yeah im sure its hard to go at it slow and take your time when you haven't been able to have sex for 2-3 weeks.
i imagine you just pounce on each other lol.
maybe you guys could have a quickie right off to release some of that built up tension and then relax and go slow to build up to another slow more sensual love making session.