I just started dating someone a little less than 2 months ago. He is a very sexual person, and i'm not as sexually experianced as him (like ive had sex w/ 2 other ppl, but it was only once with each of them...and it lasted not 20 min.). Anyway, he has done everything he can to please me and since i've not really done anything to a guy (well, becides hand jobs, blow jobs, etc). But what i'm talking about is massage type things or some kind of touch that will just drive him crazy. I've actually NOT gone down on the person i'm with now because he said when we first met that he doesnt mind them but he would rather please his lady then be pleased. So, everytime we fool around i think about giving him a blow job but i never do because hes going down on me not 2 seconds later. UGH!!!
So, i want to surprise him and just do something and anything that will please him. I've always wanted to have one of those really romantic weekends and have like candles, exotic foods, rose peedles all over...but to me guys would do that for girls, girls wouldn't do that for guys.
But...um..yeah! hehe, any suggestions would be GREAT!
that will take a miracle, not even wally wally wally!!! can have the answer to that. LOL!
And now we have sorted that one out... on to the middle east crisis... lol
ditto! It is true, to give is better than to receive... Wouldn't the world be a much better place if every one gave... then everyone would receive. Relationships are very much attune to that idea on the conscious and subconscious level. Try to outgive each other... It adds an extraordinary dimension to your love and relationship.
I agree with Wally... I love to give pleasure, it's so rewarding in so may ways.
Get out the candles!
Of course every guy is different, but I think most will appreciate just about any effort their woman makes to create an atmosphere that's sensual and sexy. So much of this is not about technique, it's about attitude.
A massage, for example can be simple kneeding of muscles or it can be an exciting exploration of the other person's body. Concentrating on every inch of skin... (both the massager and massagee) and how the touch feels... how different touches create different feelings...
Speaking of attitude, I'd also encourage you to consider this: letting him please you may be bringing him much more pleasure than you realize. If you want to drive him wild, just let him please you and show him how much he does.
Sometimes the most sensual thing we can do is allow ourselves to explore our potential for sensuality.