Try straddling him while he is sitting on a chair that is narrow (a metal folding chair works well). This should allow your feet to reach the floor so that you'll have a lot more control over what you are doing.

try google-ing sex positions and go down the list.

The forum has an area depicting sexual positions. Check it out.

The Woman Superior position is great for women because it places them in complete control; however, having said that, this particular position does not do a lot toward peaking a guy's arousal. He can still be turned on by watching you do the work and by fondling your breasts.

when youre on top ride him, make your tits bounce in his face, put his hands on your ass, tell him to spank you, or you can go on top but backwards so he's looking at your ass the whole time and you can play with his balls.

go on top of him and then ride him really slowly up and down, when you go down go deep and when you are riding up clench your muscles it will drive him crazy

Here are some suggestions for bringing him along, manually from the definitive website devoted to male masturbation. Have a look at the various hand job techniques and try those that appeal to you:

http://jackinworld.com/expert/01basica.html

Stand your man with his back to a wall. Kneel or sit in front of him and have your way with him. Expect that at some point he will be unable to remain standing as his knees will become weak and he will slowly crumple to the floor--where you can continue to have your way with him! :D

As for positions, have him recline on his back while you straddle him on your hands and knees in the 69 position. Give each other oral and manual stimulation. When the time comes for intercourse, one or the other of you just does a readjustment and off ya go, again.

> i feel that when im on top i just cant get him as turned on? is there any hints or tips that anyone can give me to make him be amazed?

The Woman Superior position is a superior position for you and it is true that it isn't all that great for us with regard to penile stimulation. It's all about the angles of the vagina and penis. It is a good position for us in that we get to view our partner from an entirely new perspective--and, we get to fondle her breasts, or if she lowers her torso--we can have a very emotional connection when we match up her nipples and our nipples. Otherwise, other positions are better for the guys, while not always so great for you gals. In these other positions, a knowing, caring lover will reach around with his fingers and continue to stimulate her genitals while he pumps away.

There are two things you can do to really really boost the intensity of what he feels from your caresses. The first is to give him a prostate massage; the second is to lightly squeeze a testicle when he is at the brink of an orgasm.

The prostate gland is located approximately 2" inside the the anus and along the front wall. It can be felt as a walnut shaped protuberence beneath the lining. Massaging this with your finger when he is about to climax will greatly enhance what he is experiencing from your other caresses. It will also help jumpstart an orgasm that might be giving him some trouble!

It has been said that there is a fine line between pain and pleasure. So it is when squeezing a testicle. Please understand that the testicles are most sensitive and reactive to impact pressure. You can squeeze them quite a bit before it becomes really uncomfortable. Herein lies the key. At a time when you are not making love, ask to let you gently squeeze one of his balls. The purpose is to learn just how much pressure you can apply in order to cause a mild and annoying little ache. When he is not aroused, this is sensation is not so much painful as it is bothersome. Now, fast forward to when you are making love and he is about to climax and you do this and that same application of pressure will cause the same ache yet he will perceive it as intense pleasure. (Go figure.) Anyway, give this a try and you will find that the result will be similar to massaging the prostate.

Lastly, it is not so much what you do when making love as in how you do it. Think about this....

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good site for masturbation techniques ;)

> I love jackinworld.. good site for masturbation techniques

That is a definite yes. Every boy should study the information presented, learn it inside out, and then let his girlfriend/wife study and apply what she has learned. Jackinworld is as much for women as it is for men IMHO.

i wouldnt say inside out...but its still a pretty good site for when you get bored from one technique