My fiance is coming home in a couple wks and hes leaning to find my g spot so i can feel heaven.

The G(raffenberg)-spot is located about 2" inside the vagina along the front wall between the pubic bone and the cervix. The exact position varies among women yet it can be felt as a small spongy area about the size of a nickel or quarter.

It can be massaged at any time; however, the area really only becomes reactive after a woman achieves a high state of arousal and is approaching her orgasm. This is when massaging it will offer the most benefit. He should use a slight amount of pressure with his finger(s) rather than just grazing the surface.

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> Can somebody please explain how do i put him there to?

There are three areas of the male body that will do much to enhance the caresses you are already doing simultaneously. The following caresses are ancillary to other forms and when done at the same time (with the other hand) will greatly increase his level of arousal and the intensity of his orgasms.

1. Nipples -
1a. use the tip of your finger to rub a nipple
1b. use a fingernail to very lightly "scratch" a nipple.
This is best accomplished indirectly using a layer of
material like a sheet, or shirt between your finger or
nail and his nipple.

The nipple(s) can be caressed at any time; however,
best results happen after he becomes very aroused.
Usually one nipple is more reactive than the other.
Experiment and see if you can determine which one
has the greater affect, then rub this one.

2. Anus and Prostate -
a. Fingering the outside of the anus by very lightly rubbing
and/or tapping it will stimulate very sensitive nerves.
Initial contact can be done anytime using either a wet
or lubricated finger; however, the greates effect comes
when he is highly aroused and using a wet finger.
b. The next step is to insert a well lubricated finger
inside along the sphincters. This accomplishes two things:
first, it will distribute the lubrication along the passageway;
second, using a stroking and undulating movement of a
finger will stimulate these sensitive nerve endings that will
also enhance what you are doing to other areas of his body
to pleasure him with your other hand.
c. Use pressure to insert a finger (or any other object),
never shove or poke. Make certain your finger or dildo is
well lubricated. If any discomfort is felt, stop, and reapply
lubricant to the affected area. Do not rub against dry
tissue or membrane. Doing so can chafe the tissue and this
is a no-no!

d. Prostate massage is extremely pleasurable. Massaging
the gland after he has achieved a high state of arousal
will do a couple of things for him. The first is to help jump-
start an elusive orgasm (such as one in the string of multiples);
the second is to greatly intensify the pleasure of other
caresses and the resulting orgasm.

The prostate gland is a small walnut-shaped orgasn that can be felt as a small protuberence under the lining about 2" inside along the front wall.

NOTE: Going to the bathroom sometime beforehand and also bathing are recommended precursors. The fingernail on the finger to be inserted should be well trimmed!

3. Playing ball -
Another way to help trigger an orgasm (elusive or not) is to
gently squeeze one of his testicles when he is at the trigger
point of an orgasm.

There is an old adage that says "there is a fine line between
pain and pleasure." Here's the scoop on that:
a. The testicles react to impact much more so than pressure.
This being the case, it is possible to gently squeeze one using
only enough pressure to cause a little ache that is not really
painful, just annoying when he is not aroused.
b. When you do this at a time when he is extremely aroused,
the mildly annoying ache is then perceived by the brain to be
pleasurable. Go figure.
c. There is a difference, tho, between this form of caress and
the others. This one works primarily to help trigger his orgasm
(elusive or not) and not so much to augment the sensations
generated by other forms of caresses being done at the same time.

NOTE: In order to determine how much pressure to apply, I suggest that the two of you experiment at times when you do not plan on being romantic. The idea is to learn just how much pressure to apply in order to cause that mildly annoying ache and not to go overboard and cause PAIN. Once he tells you enough is enough, note the amount of pressure you are applying and then try to duplicate it a few times just to make sure you know the correct amount.

Later, when you are in the throws of passion, and you want to do this to help trigger his climax, you will know exactly how much pressure to apply. The key is not to do it too soon; wait until he is right on the verge of an orgasm and at the trigger point of his orgasm.

Each one of these ancillary caresses can be carried out into the orgasm itself if it is his desire. You'll have to test this because each guy is different.

> i just want him to lay there n say wow.

Well...the methods above, may just possibly overwhelm his ability to say much if anything, so do not take his silence as any disapproval! He may say "wow" although I suggest looking at the smile on his face as real confirmation.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?