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Alright, me and my boyfriend has just started having sex...
when i'm on top and he goes all the way in...
it hurts sooo bad in my lower stomach
what can i do to stop that...
i really want to be on top...
and so does he....
i need help!!!
More foreplay is needed and make sure that his penis goes under your cervix not on top of it.
When you are on top, you control how deep he goes - so exercise that control!
well the good thing is when your on top you have control. Nothing is wrong, ive had similar pains. It probably just his penis pushing against your outside wall which puts pressure on your abbs. Eventually you will find find the right angle and pressure for you and your bf to feel good. Just let him know if its hurts, he will gladdly work with you so it is pleasurable. Good luck.
thanks!!
i'll keep trying
and yes when it hurts i used to try to keep going but he says he doesnt like to see me in pain so he stops and gets on top
another problem is... he is my first but we've been having sex for a bit now
like two weeks i guess you could say
but when he's in and going... i cant feel it... i cant orgasim... i just lay there adn try to move along with him but nothing seems to work
what should i do?? i thought sex was a great feeling... not a nothing feeling... and i'm scared to tell him that i'm not feeling anything... does it mean that it's not good for him either???:eek:
find your g spot....that and playing with your clit, thats the secrete to orgasm. Finding your g spot kinda fun really lol you and your boyfriend can "explore" together. They say its about 2-3 inches inside your vagina but mine is closer to 4 or 5 inches. I can barly reach it using my fingers. But im sure your bf wouldnt mind helping ;)
how do i know if i find the G-spot
what the heck is a G-spot
lol
i may be 18
but i'm still very new
he was my first and i'm his
plus i tried sooooo may ways to prevent that sharp pain when i'm on top and nothing seems to work
:mad:
your g spot is a highly sensitive patch or tissue inside you. It feels softer than the rest of the tissue is .mine is the size of a dime (i guess lol). By trying to find it you will also get more familar with your shape inside which may help with the pain you feel during sex. YOur vaginal cavity curves upwards toward your spine so you may need to have him enter at a diff. angle, to accomidate your shape.
i have two more questions then i'll leave ya alone ;) lol
#1: What do u think would be the best postition to help stop that pain, bc it's not just when i'm on top it's whenever he goes all the way in.. the only time he can put it all in is when he's sitting up and i'm sitting on him...:D
#2: i shave my lower region... how do i get the razor burn to go away and make the stuble go away.. i dont want any visible hair... and how do i stop it from bleeding, like when i go against the grain... it bleeds where i shave... how do i stop that?:confused:
[QUOTE=JustHavingFun;164047]i have two more questions then i'll leave ya alone ;) lol
#1: What do u think would be the best postition to help stop that pain, bc it's not just when i'm on top it's whenever he goes all the way in.. the only time he can put it all in is when he's sitting up and i'm sitting on him...:D
#2: i shave my lower region... how do i get the razor burn to go away and make the stuble go away.. i dont want any visible hair... and how do i stop it from bleeding, like when i go against the grain... it bleeds where i shave... how do i stop that?:confused:[/QUOTE]
i think i got an answer for some of ur second question, baby oil, vaseline, and other gentle moisturisers should cool and calm down the razor rash, i knwo what ur goin thru i hate it just as much!! the bleeding will happen but its useful to use a gentle shaving cream to stop the razor catchign yoru skin. if all else fails, wax, but theresno way you'll catch me doing that again!!! if you dont want visable hair, i belive they have bikini line hair bleach, but it might be a tad expensive :)
Either he's banging into your cervix (ouch!) or he's going on top of it and not below it. He needs to improve his skills in that case. Also you may be tensing up in anticipation of pain- so you are going to have to will yourself to relax.
Then stop shaving and go with waxing (painful). Stubble etc is to be expected when you shave. Or you might just say the heck with it and just trim your genital fur which is no muss, no fuss, no bleeding, and not at all painful.
well if you have no problem when he sits and you sit on him then now you know the ideal angle. as for shaving try one of those vibrating razors will probably be fun too :D as for the stubble though I don't know perhaps just be trimmed ?