I try fingering and masterbation and when my bf fingers me and gives me oral or even durring sex...i cant cum...i dont know what is wrong...for some reason it just wont happen O.O will someone please help me!!!!!!!T_T this problem is really annoing and i really wanna find a resolution
Wed, 07/26/2006 - 23:52
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I need tips or advice or to know if this is normal!! 911!!!!!!!!!!
Three threads, it must be important.
Honestly, I'm not an expert on female masturbation. If I remember correctly, however, some women simply don't orgasm during intercourse. Please correct me if I'm wrong.
[QUOTE=Lanna]I try fingering and masterbation and when my bf fingers me and gives me oral or even durring sex...i cant cum...i dont know what is wrong...for some reason it just wont happen O.O will someone please help me!!!!!!!T_T this problem is really annoing and i really wanna find a resolution[/QUOTE]
how old/ experienced are you? There's so many techniques out there,
just the setting, privacy, candles, aromatherapy, very gentle and extended foreplay will work.
I learned because my girlfriend was open and honest about what she liked, and how, she litterally took my hand and showed me her clitorus, we spent the best part of a year teaching each other, it takes time but is it ever worth the learning, hope you have a good lover.
i'm sorry i dont really feel confortable about giving my age on this site but i will tell u i'm in my mid teens...i dunno if i cum or not...it's just i dont feel the release that ur suppost to feel when you cum...it's really fustrating and i dont want to offend my boyfriend cuz he is really really amazing when we do those kinda things so i put on a show and pretend that i'm cumming...but i know i havent...i've never even been able to make myself cum...ya i know how to make myself wet etc but i cant make myself cum... please help...
Well, if you feel a rush of a really good feeling... hmm thats all I can explain an orgasm as... its just, if you have one you just know. But I'm in my mid-teens as well I'm 15, and I just recently started having sex. But if your boyfriend ever hits a spot where it feels good, just tell him to do it that way... or well I do this position that always works for a great orgasm... the old fasioned girl on the bottom on her back, boy on top. Just tell him to go in deep and slow, long strokes. And when you want him to go faster, just let him keep going slow... it will tease you... but it will keep the orgasm going for a long time... haha try that... But also, do you talk to your partner about sex often? Because being open about it helps also. You need to be able to accept what is coming to you. I know I'm young... but I kinda know what I'm talking about? lol
See Female Sexual Response in Chick Chat. The visit a few sites on female orgasm. You will be able to tell the difference between the responsible ones and the crap.
i didnt read any of the threads or your question, but i want to comment on the 911!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! part
i thought there was a fire.