My bOyfriend want's to have sex w/ me (LOL)
and I'm toO scared.
is it hurt? cOz it's my 1st time
so I need sOme One to help me.
he waNts me to BJ him.
and i dunnO how to do It.
i'm to yOung 4 this. (16 yrs. old LOL)
~_~ desu...
Mon, 10/13/2008 - 00:09
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i need sOme helP!! A.S.A.P
Dear God tell me this is a joke topic.
TT_TT i'm sOrry
The age at which some one is ready for sex varies from person to person. I had a friend that had sex for the first time at 15, she felt ready and I knew her boy friend was not pressuring her, actually if anything it was the other way around. On the other hand I have a friend who just now at 19 feels ready for sex. The only person that can tell if you are ready for sex is you. Since you are asking this question I would suspect that you don’t feel ready, and in that case I would suggest you wait. If your boy friend is pressuring you then maybe you should not be seeing him. He wanting to have sex should not factor in to your decision. Just whether or not you feel you are ready.
P.S. from now on it would be nice if you use proper English such as capitals at the beginning of sentences and words spelled out. It makes it a lot easier to read. Also only respond to threads if you have some advice to give. Anyways welcome to this forum, I am sure that Doc. will be here soon to welcome you as well.
I am going to offer my 2 cents, but i am also going to say StoP WiTh ThIs! Its highly annoying to read and is god honestly a put off. I don't mean to be bitchy, but it is.
Right, you are clearly NOT ready to have sex yet. Firstly, you giggle at the word sex, secondly you are say that HE wants to have sex not you. You have to be comfortable with the guy and mostly have complete trust in him. I waited till I was 18 and in a committed relationship for a fair few months. This is because sex does complicate things, and I wanted to know I wasn't a quick shag for my first time. Also because when you have someone you trust it makes things easier. My 1st time did hurt. This experience is different for everybody I am afraid. But I was able to get over that with him, explore further and learn to really enjoy sex.
To your second point. Don't do it if you don't want to or he pushes you to do so. It shows no respect in my opinion. But there are plenty of topics on Pleasing Him if you want this advice.
Ditto Mr Saint in other words. You beat me too it by 3 minutes he he.
I do that all the time, repeat the advice that some one posted when I was typing.
The curse of the forum really.
Its the same thing, mines just a bit bitchier than intended... I have no patience today. I blame my night shift at work.
Please look at the Index and read the appropriate articles. Your questions have been asked and answered many times and this is why the articles and Index were written.
--BEGIN HERE--w/a Partial INDEX of Sex Info 101 Sex Ed. Topics
Will loosing your hymen hurt? The best and only answer is that "it depends". Why? Because it depends upon the particular individual's tolerance for pain, whether the membrane has eroded away from years of playing sports, and exercising in general. It also depends upon how thick it is and how it is constructed; not all are the same.
When the desire for him overcomes the fear, then and ONLY then are you ready to have sex with him.
From what you have written, I would say you are not mature enough to handle sex.
Oh, and I like your little words of wisdom there EEK.