Quite a fantasy. You would probably have a better chance being the good kid at the local church.

You're a great looking kid, although, I would recommend your next portfolio include some smiles :)

You think you've got it rough, now; wait a year. Boys do not reach their sexual peak until sometime during their nineteenth year. From their twenties on it is all down hill as far as as sex drive and being hormonal are concerned!

I fully understand the need to see a (partially) nude body and to get your rocks off, preferably with assistance. This is the male drive to procreate that goes hand-in-hand with those awesome orgasmic feelings we want to have over and over. Girls on the other hand do not have the same sex drive, the same physiological need, or the same psychological desire. This might explain why females of the species can enjoy making love with a man yet never experience an orgasm. Os are not the be all end all for women they are for men. This one life lesson in sex ed. you need to understand.

For sex to be meaningful, it must be tied to an emotional desire. Guys can separate the two much more easily than can women. Prostitutes for example take a much higher toll on their psyches than do their male customers. You may have observed that girls are not out searching for a male outlet for their sexual frustrations and daily stress. Women have more ways of dealing with stress than do guys. If women had the same orgasmic needs, we'd see people having unabashed sex constantly whether it be on the sidewalks, parks, trees, or dressing rooms. Women would be in constant heat and the pheromones would be overpowering in the confines of a mall or other enclosed space.

I recommend that you learn how to manage stress and then balance this with the need for pleasure, then develop coping skills. You are no different from any other hormonal teen, or adult, who has gone through this phase of life and managed to cope. You should also have one or two great fantasies that you can call upon when masturbating. A good script will keep you entertained and help make each session more enjoyable. Masturbate as often as you need in order to eliminate daily stresses and/or for the pure pleasure of it all. That said, you must learn to balance the need for stress reduction with the desire for pleasure and entertainment so that you do not go up against a wall too early in the day finding that your body will no longer respond when you need to get rid of the stress or sexual tension. This is another management strategy every boy must learn.

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What the good doctor is saying is that you stand a much better chance of being considered a nice young man among the church parishioners than of being a "bad boy" in the mall. Your idea of passing notes is idiotic, impractical, and will likely get you a slap on the face than what you propose on paper. Why? Because you do not understand what turns a girl on. Unless money is involved, there must be an emotional attraction developed over time.

As for dressing rooms--have you been in many? Some only have drapes, others have partial doors, while few offer full height doors and total privacy. Privacy--I do not know of any that will muffle oohs and ahhs, let alone heavy breathing! Stay in one longer than five minutes and the clerks will become curious or customers anxious. Walk out of one separately or together afterward and I can visualize the stares.

"Dick" is always with you. Grab onto "him" whenever you want as many times as you want during the day, whether it be in your bedroom, bathroom, or a restroom stall in the mall, school, or elsewhere. For the foreseeable future, you are best served and satisfied going it alone. On the other hand, this might be sufficient motivation to date and go through the process of finding Ms. Right from among the girls you ask out. Dating should not begin and end with the first warm body who expresses an interest in us. Dating is an ongoing process of asking people out and learning what humanity has to offer us. Some dates will be one time events, others two or three, some will go on and on.

> Im not really the type of guy they're into.

You won't know unless and until you begin asking people out. Stop with the "woe is me" attitude and get into the dating game. Go out with lots of people, enjoy each date for what it is (a pleasant dinner and movie or other activity). It beats staying at home alone. If the first date is successful, ask each girl out again, and so on and on. As I stated, above, expect that you will go through several before finding one or two that you want to continue dating. Involve family, friends, and coworkers, informing each that you are interested in dating and to help you find someone. This is called "networking". The more people you have working on your behalf, the better your chances of finding "the one".

Get a move on...time's a wasting.....

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Put on some nice cloths and go after older girls, like in there twenties. You will find that older women will like you for those same traits that seem to drive high schools girls away. Being mature and responsible all of a sudden become turn ons instead of turn offs and nice cloths will get you laid instead of ridiculed. There are women out there that want casual sex as well, she is just older then you. Also the note idea won't work, you have to talk to them and get to know them.

I mean no "older woman" will respond to a note on the wall but in a social grouping, some may be interested in the "nice boy."

hahaha great idea, not sure it will work tho