My current partner is my first partner although I'm 17 and he is obviously my first sexual partner. He is more experienced than me and hasn't hid that from me, however there are a few problems. He realises that I don't really know what i'm doing although i've tried to read this site and put it into practice. As far as the sex goes i'm getting more confident and trying more things and he is trying more things with me as well which i like, because obviously being a virigin when we met i had to get used to the whole sex thing. However, he is always doing oral sex on me, and i tried with him but i'm always gagging whenever i put his penis inside my mouth, it gets to a point where i work myself up so much and start crying because i feel like i can't do it and we have to stop. Any advice as to some techniques i could use and how to stop the major gagging sensation I feel when I do it would really help me develop our sex life further. I look forward to your replies.
Fri, 08/04/2006 - 19:55
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I need a little advice
just go with ur felling don't think of somthing eals while u preform oral don't be in hurry to put his c*** in ur mouth just start with lick it and some kisses look to ur hand rub him when u put in ur mouth don't put all deep take it slowly suck the head first then start depper and depper u will feel more horrny and u like that
p.s
u have to be so relax and make ur body confortable to enjoy ur time , i have a small tip for u
take his penis rub it with ur nipples u will enjoy it and make u so hot to do more that that .
Peforming fellatio really takes some getting used to!, My first time I thought I had been poisoned. I also think it is an essential component of any woman's bag of tricks.
You may want to use use a (dry) condom for a while. You can get the mechanics down with no risk of getting a mouthful. Mnay women gag at the thought of the whole thing. Others at the thought of getting a mouthful. In the short term do not pressure yourself. The condom will handle the worst. In the longer term, My aunt taught me a technique that I have found useful. Place your thumb at the bottom base of his penis. You can feel any ejaculate passing that point. When you feel it, IMMEDIATELY press the back of your tongue against your hard palate. This protects the gag reflex at the back of the throat from the first hard shot that comes out of him. He understands you are learning and this is one of the more difficult for many women to learn. I am certain he appreciates the effort.
In addition, try using an aid in place of the real penis with which to practice and learn. You can use your thumb, a candle stick, hotdog, or if you want something larger--a cuccumber or English cucccumber.
Relax your jaw and do not try to open your mouth wide; rather, with your lips wrapped over your teeth (so as not to scrape him) open just wide enough for his penis or your aid to slip between.
You do not have to let the object go to the rear of your mouth where it might contact your uvula and cause a gag reflex. It is only necessary to go a fraction of an inch inside for your lips to caress him and your tongue to tantalize and tease him. Combine these actions with your hand and he will be in nirvana quicker than you might expect.
It is a woman's choice whether or not to let a guy ejaculate in your mouth. If you decide this is something you would like to have happen, then raise the tip of your tongue to the roof of your mouth so that the semen squirts against the bottom surface of the tongue and does not fly clear back to the rear of your mouth.