I am confused why there would be sperm on the outside of the condom.

Any time sperm comes in contact with vaginal fluids there is a risk of pregnancy. Now, her not feeling well today has NOTHING to do with last night. It takes time and the egg has to be fertilized and implant itself, this is not immediate--this is assuming she is within the range in her cycle for ovulation. After that, weeks to months later morning sickness symptoms appear, they are not immediate.

Two choices; sweat it out since the risk is very low although it CAN occur is most unlikely--no guarantees in life. Two, if she is not taking birth control pills (I assume she is not) go to a pharmacy and purchase "Plan B" and begin it immediately. After 72 hours it cannot be used.

Next time use a spermicide (her) along with the condom. If she does not want to use the spermicide then discuss with her going on the pill or using a second barrier method (diaphragm, cervical cap) or an IUD.

Buy a better brand of condoms and use them correctly. She should be on a reliable form of birth control. If you are going to indulge in adult play, you had better be adult about it.

I'm also confused by your account.

> we had sex again which was last night ok she was on top i had a condom on and when i was about to "ejaculate" i told her to git up so i could pull out but i noticed that there was very little sperm on the out side of the condom and we laid there and my penis was still touchin her but no intercourse....

My question is how do you know it was "sperm" or semen. Seems to me what you saw was vaginal mucus. Yes? No?

You really do not know too much about this adult game called sex. The results of not knowing what you are doing can be very expensive to many parties. The entire act of sex is designed to result in pregnancy and that is one reason nature has made it so pleasureable.

When using condoms for birth control, she should also have vaginal jelly, or other spermicide, in her vagina. Pulling out makes little difference. The male urinary tract, especially during arousal, is crawling with sperm.

Yes, she could be pregnant but it is highly unlikely that any symptoms would show up the next morning. You and she get to the local Planned Parenthood or women's clinic or sex clinic or school clinic and get every pamphlet they have on birth control. And, while there, ask someone to explain the process to you. You may get by this time but with this lack of knowledge, someone is going to get hurt.

Also, condoms with a spermicide lubricants can be bought about anywhere. Those are pretty handy, and give a little extra protection.

Effectiveness of spermicide requires about 150 mg in the vagina. The stuff on condoms adds a little but not enough to be really effective as a contraceptive. The major effect is perhaps preventing some sperm from swimming around the open end - a major cause of condom "failure."

you say u pulled out before ejaculating.... now did u ejaculate when u saw the semen or not.. as this may have just been mucus from her vagina..

anyway if you are going to wear a condom, pull out and still be worried about pregnancy is it really worth the trouble?? you msut ask yourself this.

i know from experience that the morning sickness means nothing AT ALL! my gf has experienced these sicknesses 2 or three times... we feared the worst... except we either used a condom, birth control, or both... EVERY TIME! so we were kind of baffled that she might be pregnant... well she wasnt pregnant at all, we just believe the sickness was in her head, or something like that.

anyways.... im not saying youre in the clear.... id buy a pregnancy test just in case... and DO NOT, i repeat, DO NOT buy cheap pregnancy tests (or condoms for that matter) you just cant afford to go cheap.... dont you think its worth it to pay a few extra bucks for a brand you know you can trust more? The odds of a cheapo pregnancy test being acurate arent very high... which is WHY theyre cheap! same with condoms!

Point being, i think youre fine... but buy an EXPENSIVE test (i suggest the Error Proof Test... it costs around 10$ each) and buy some better comdoms while youre at it bub

Morning sickness is a term used when women are pregnant and it can occur any point through the day.

Off label pregnancy tests work fine, many are manufactured by the larger companies and packaged under the "store" name. The only difficult which arises is people fail to follow the directions or fail to read them properly. The test which are now available are pretty accurate compared to years ago. Most hospitals use off label ones due to cost.