If it's his first time, he'll really like it, no matter what. Trust me. I'd be more concerned about you, though. Make sure you use lots of lube and tell him if/when it hurts and go slow...no need to rush these things.
Yea I'm sure you'll both enjoy it. Just start at a slow pace and make sure that you're both comfortable. Just go with it and see what happens. My first time with my gf we started slow in the missionary and ended up turning it into a crazy wild time. So just do what you both enjoy and are comfortable with
Also, weve made plans to do it on my b-day, as a present kinda. How do i satrt it? i mean, say were sitting on my bed watching movies, how do i let him know that i wanna have sex, not just make out.
I believe along with many many other people who have gone before you that you should wait a few years. You will probably find that at some point in the future you will regret having had intercourse so early if go ahead and do it.
That said, if you are going to do it then I think you have almost answered your own question:
> Weve talked about it over and over, Weve decided that we are both ready to do everything
> Also, weve made plans to do it on my b-day, as a present kinda. How do i satrt it? i mean, say were sitting on my bed watching movies, how do i let him know that i wanna have sex, not just make out.
Sounds to me like you stopped talking too soon. The two of you need to decide this ahead of time.
Alternately, you can do a couple of things.
T#1 is when the time is right place your hand over the bulge in his pants and wait to see what he does. You can also begin squeezing it or moving it side to side, again waiting for a response.
T#2 is to unzip/unbutton his pants and bring his penis out into the open. If he does not get the hint, enjoy whatever does happen as a result.
I agree with the doc. Doing little things like that and letting him see that you're open to anything will get his attention trust me. If he just starts to make out and thats it, then try moving around and making little moves on him and just hint at wat you want.
we boit h wanna do it all in one night, his mom doesnt liek me that much and my dad duznt really like him that much, so we dont have much oppertunity to spread it out over a couple of nights. Im 12 and hes 13[[i know were young but i also KNOW were ready and weve been going out 1 and a half years]]
[QUOTE=ill_love_danny_4ever;183503]we boit h wanna do it all in one night, his mom doesnt liek me that much and my dad duznt really like him that much, so we dont have much oppertunity to spread it out over a couple of nights. Im 12 and hes 13[[i know were young but i also KNOW were ready and weve been going out 1 and a half years]][/QUOTE]
Umm Yeah
I take back everything I said....
If I was a parent I wouldn't want my 12 yr old having sex either!!!! :mad:
If you cannot figure out "how to" you are not ready yet. Geez, I was young (14) but to date when I was 10? Boys still had cooties then...Maybe since your parents are opposed to it is why you want to do it.
No thats not why, I know that for sure. Ima very mature 12 yr old. [[metally and phiscally]] and I know "how to" its just, i want tips on getting everything started, geez
[quote=ill_love_danny_4ever;183513]No thats not why, I know that for sure. Ima very mature 12 yr old. [[metally and phiscally]] and I know "how to" its just, i want tips on getting everything started, geez[/quote]
Read Dancin Docs post on the art of humping...follow it. Trust me, you will be lucky if you both can get in in the vaginal opening. Read his post!
[QUOTE=demonbuttercup;183511]So if you went up to your dad and asked him if it was ok for you to have sex w/ anyone other than Danny... he'd be cool w/ it?
DOubtful!
I don't doubt that YOU believe you are ready... it's just that most folks don't believe that a 12 yr old is capable of making such a HUGE decision and also for being responsible for ones actions.
But if you are going to... just be safe!
That's what I asked... is that if you walked up to your dad right now and said. Dad I am going to have sex... not w/ danny tho, another guy.. that he would reply.. ok honey... just take care.. and stay away from that danny kid.
Any parent in their right mind wouldn't think a 12 yr old having sex is an acceptable thing.. and if they do... then *sigh* that's really sad!
[quote=ill_love_danny_4ever;183517]Im not on birth control, were going to use a condom[/quote]
Not enough protection at your age, especially with no experience. You need to get some vaginal spermicide, he uses the condom. You DO NOT need to be parents!
[quote=ill_love_danny_4ever;183521]yeah, me and hinm have talked over it numerous times, were using a condom. And i migth start taking birth control.[/quote]
You need two forms. One spermicide since it's easy to get & use...him a condom. Why? they break, come off, and split. It's not enough. Please trust me. Go on the pill when you can but for now it's TWO forms.
[quote=ill_love_danny_4ever;183523]Well i thin ka condom wud b good, for EXTRA protection, it cant hurt.[/quote]
I am telling you the truth. What do you do when the condom splits, rips, or comes off in you???? Go to the store and buy Vag. foam or VCF (Vaginal contraceptive films) easy to use, easy to get. First time using condoms they can fail. ANd please you are too young to be parents....if you are going to do it, step up and do the right thing.
I think it will be very easy for him to get pleasure. Ask him to guide you when you're doing HJ or performing oral a bit. As for normal sex, if he's new to sex (and especially so young), pretty much everything will be very pelasure for him and - probably - too pleasure in a way that he'll come too fast.
Another thing - don't forget that not only touching genitals will bring leasure to men. Try to get to know his body before you even start anything.
Now as for you - be sure you're safe. Use everything carefully and according to instructions. It can be distracting but failure would cost you much much more.
It is nice you care so much for him, but does he care that much for you? I hope he is also wondering what should he do to bring pelasure to you. if you get at least any doubts any sexond, stop it imediately. You have to be 100% sure, 99% is not enough.
anyone? I really need advice
If it's his first time, he'll really like it, no matter what. Trust me. I'd be more concerned about you, though. Make sure you use lots of lube and tell him if/when it hurts and go slow...no need to rush these things.
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Yea I'm sure you'll both enjoy it. Just start at a slow pace and make sure that you're both comfortable. Just go with it and see what happens. My first time with my gf we started slow in the missionary and ended up turning it into a crazy wild time. So just do what you both enjoy and are comfortable with
Weve talked about it over and over, Weve decided that we are both ready to do everything but i just need tips, like:
what do guys liek the best?
Do they like kissing during sex?
Whats the most pleasurable postions for them?
stuff like that :)
Also, weve made plans to do it on my b-day, as a present kinda. How do i satrt it? i mean, say were sitting on my bed watching movies, how do i let him know that i wanna have sex, not just make out.
I believe along with many many other people who have gone before you that you should wait a few years. You will probably find that at some point in the future you will regret having had intercourse so early if go ahead and do it.
That said, if you are going to do it then I think you have almost answered your own question:
> Weve talked about it over and over, Weve decided that we are both ready to do everything
> Also, weve made plans to do it on my b-day, as a present kinda. How do i satrt it? i mean, say were sitting on my bed watching movies, how do i let him know that i wanna have sex, not just make out.
Sounds to me like you stopped talking too soon. The two of you need to decide this ahead of time.
Alternately, you can do a couple of things.
T#1 is when the time is right place your hand over the bulge in his pants and wait to see what he does. You can also begin squeezing it or moving it side to side, again waiting for a response.
T#2 is to unzip/unbutton his pants and bring his penis out into the open. If he does not get the hint, enjoy whatever does happen as a result.
I agree with the doc. Doing little things like that and letting him see that you're open to anything will get his attention trust me. If he just starts to make out and thats it, then try moving around and making little moves on him and just hint at wat you want.
So maybe i should just start rubbing his penis?
and caressing it?
What are sum tips in giving a hand job? and a blow job
Besides... you don't have to do EVERYTHING in one night.. you can always start w/ heavy petting... HJs and oral... and then work up to the real thing.
we boit h wanna do it all in one night, his mom doesnt liek me that much and my dad duznt really like him that much, so we dont have much oppertunity to spread it out over a couple of nights. Im 12 and hes 13[[i know were young but i also KNOW were ready and weve been going out 1 and a half years]]
[QUOTE=ill_love_danny_4ever;183503]we boit h wanna do it all in one night, his mom doesnt liek me that much and my dad duznt really like him that much, so we dont have much oppertunity to spread it out over a couple of nights. Im 12 and hes 13[[i know were young but i also KNOW were ready and weve been going out 1 and a half years]][/QUOTE]
Umm Yeah
I take back everything I said....
If I was a parent I wouldn't want my 12 yr old having sex either!!!! :mad:
its not that my dad duznt want me having sex, he just duznt liek Dannys parents. So he duznt really liek danny aroudn me either
If you cannot figure out "how to" you are not ready yet. Geez, I was young (14) but to date when I was 10? Boys still had cooties then...Maybe since your parents are opposed to it is why you want to do it.
So if you went up to your dad and asked him if it was ok for you to have sex w/ anyone other than Danny... he'd be cool w/ it?
DOubtful!
Am I ready for sex?
Try here too... there are a lot of things you have to take into consideration.
No thats not why, I know that for sure. Ima very mature 12 yr old. [[metally and phiscally]] and I know "how to" its just, i want tips on getting everything started, geez
[quote=ill_love_danny_4ever;183513]No thats not why, I know that for sure. Ima very mature 12 yr old. [[metally and phiscally]] and I know "how to" its just, i want tips on getting everything started, geez[/quote]
Read Dancin Docs post on the art of humping...follow it. Trust me, you will be lucky if you both can get in in the vaginal opening. Read his post!
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new_sex/20641-intercourse_orgasms_the_ge...
And your birth control is what?????????????
[QUOTE=demonbuttercup;183511]So if you went up to your dad and asked him if it was ok for you to have sex w/ anyone other than Danny... he'd be cool w/ it?
DOubtful!
Am I ready for sex?
Try here too... there are a lot of things you have to take into consideration.[/QUOTE]
Thats not wut im saying, im saying that my dad is okay with me having sex, he juts duznt really want danny to b the one i giv it up to.
I don't doubt that YOU believe you are ready... it's just that most folks don't believe that a 12 yr old is capable of making such a HUGE decision and also for being responsible for ones actions.
But if you are going to... just be safe!
Im not on birth control, were going to use a condom
That's what I asked... is that if you walked up to your dad right now and said. Dad I am going to have sex... not w/ danny tho, another guy.. that he would reply.. ok honey... just take care.. and stay away from that danny kid.
Any parent in their right mind wouldn't think a 12 yr old having sex is an acceptable thing.. and if they do... then *sigh* that's really sad!
[quote=ill_love_danny_4ever;183517]Im not on birth control, were going to use a condom[/quote]
Not enough protection at your age, especially with no experience. You need to get some vaginal spermicide, he uses the condom. You DO NOT need to be parents!
yeah, me and hinm have talked over it numerous times, were using a condom. And i migth start taking birth control.
[quote=ill_love_danny_4ever;183521]yeah, me and hinm have talked over it numerous times, were using a condom. And i migth start taking birth control.[/quote]
You need two forms. One spermicide since it's easy to get & use...him a condom. Why? they break, come off, and split. It's not enough. Please trust me. Go on the pill when you can but for now it's TWO forms.
Well i thin ka condom wud b good, for EXTRA protection, it cant hurt.
where can i get spermicide and stuff ?
[quote=ill_love_danny_4ever;183523]Well i thin ka condom wud b good, for EXTRA protection, it cant hurt.[/quote]
I am telling you the truth. What do you do when the condom splits, rips, or comes off in you???? Go to the store and buy Vag. foam or VCF (Vaginal contraceptive films) easy to use, easy to get. First time using condoms they can fail. ANd please you are too young to be parents....if you are going to do it, step up and do the right thing.
Any pharmacy in the isle where they have condoms...or an online pharmacy. It's not big deal to buy them....
okay thanks.
[quote=ill_love_danny_4ever;183529]okay thanks.[/quote]
Welcome. I have to ask, do you know the right way to get a condom on?
yes, i do, we already learned in school and everything
Ok....now get reading on the posts (links we gave you Demon & I)!
if anyone has tips or anything ill check this post often :]
I think it will be very easy for him to get pleasure. Ask him to guide you when you're doing HJ or performing oral a bit. As for normal sex, if he's new to sex (and especially so young), pretty much everything will be very pelasure for him and - probably - too pleasure in a way that he'll come too fast.
Another thing - don't forget that not only touching genitals will bring leasure to men. Try to get to know his body before you even start anything.
Now as for you - be sure you're safe. Use everything carefully and according to instructions. It can be distracting but failure would cost you much much more.
It is nice you care so much for him, but does he care that much for you? I hope he is also wondering what should he do to bring pelasure to you. if you get at least any doubts any sexond, stop it imediately. You have to be 100% sure, 99% is not enough.