i have had a girlfriend for almost 9 months and i am deeply in love with her. she has already had a "lover" and she was upfront and told me and i dont know how to feel about it becaus i love her very much and it just makes me feel things i cant explane. i have thought about having sex with her allot but the thought of her previous "lover" just kills the whole thing i mean we have had ouer fun and whatnot i mean comeon we're teenagers! mostly me just fingering her and her giving me hand jobs AKA mutual masterbation and that seemed fine and i dont know wether i should take it to the next level or not becaus i feel comfertable with it its just the obsticle of the other guy. can anny one healp me on this plz!
alwase a,
lovingman
Get over it BUD:rolleyes:
HereTry here
and here
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As you can see it's not an unusual topic ( just search "jealous and past")
But they all have the basic answer...it's her past...can't change it!!! plus it's only been 1 person!!!
The older you get the less likely you'll find someone w/out a past!
I wanted to understand your question but it is absolutely not understandable. I recommend you learn to use punctuation.
[QUOTE=HardNgood;181171]Get over it BUD:rolleyes:[/QUOTE]
you dont get it she was 15 and its not that i mind her past ist that the guy was 21! and she let everone blame her so you can emagin the **** her and i get in school for her past. everyone calls her a slut just becaus of that. i didnt want to reveal it all but i guess i have to to get you guys to understand the hole question and i appolygise for not explaneing the whole thing
alwase a,
lovingman
Whatever she did in her past is just that. Ignore the comment by those in school, half are idiots anyway. If you want to spend time w/her, do what's comfortable. Most likely whatever happened with the 21 y/o, she will probably be happy to have someone more on her level. Take it slow and let the past go. Learn this now and you will have a much happier life!
Obviously you care more about yourself than you do about her, otherwise you'd not care what anyone else said or thought - you'd stand by her. Instead, we have you worrying about "what people will say" and being stupidly jealous. Get over it.