Pain and bleeding is normal the first time, and not using protection is really silly. Chances are fairly low, but still there. Next time make sure you use protection. You could either try to get the morning after pill, if it was only a day or two ago that you did it, or just hope for the best and wait for your next period to be sure.

Read around the site, a lot of the stickies particularly in this (New to Sex) forum will help you and answer your questions. Questions just like yours get asked a lot.

Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating and get a lot of information. You really have placed yourself in a tough predicament. Why would you have sex with a guy taking the very real chance of becoming pregnant without first having all the answers to the questions you have asked?

Are you prepared to be an unwed mother and raise a child and have the future course of your life forever changed?

[QUOTE=perfectdevil15;227138]ok, i have a bf and me and him fool around alot for weeks and it got to the point of havin sex

[COLOR="Blue">Why would you have sex with a boy without insisting that he wear a condom?

Why would you have sex with a boy without first having contraception for yourself?
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and he push and it hurt and i got him to get off and there was blood and we didnt use a condom so im afraid of getting pregant.

[COLOR="Blue">Even if intercourse was not planned and did not happen, these two items must be in place before you do have intercourse. Weren't you afraid of becoming pregnant BEFORE you two began fooling around?[/COLOR]

what are the chances that i am im so scared!!! and im not on birth control for a plus.
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Not being on birth control is not a "plus".
1. Teens are the most prone of any age group to become pregnant
2. Becoming pregnant depends a lot on where you are in your cycle
3. If your cycle still varies then it is difficult to predict anything with certainty
4. Added to this is the safety factor--at 15 your body is not fully mature and there is some danger to becoming pregnant so young[/COLOR]

im just need advice please help me out and if any questions about this messages me and we can talk cuz i need someone to talk about this, please let there be someone!!!:confused:[/QUOTE]

Did he ejaculate inside of you? What day did all this happen? If you are within the 72 hour window you might be able to get the morning after pill. If not, then you will have to wait and then take two home pregnancy tests using two different manufacturers.

Please do ask questions. This is the purpose of this site and why we volunteer our time and knowledge.

Dancingdoc2 hit the nail on the head. I mean from the time you're twelve you're told to not have sex without a condom because you can get pregnant. Please get a plan-b contraceptive immediately if that's an option, and be more responsible in the future.

As for the pain and bleeding, a lot of virgins experience one or both during their first time. The pain does get better after a few tries though, and the bleeding should only be a one-time experience (at least, that's how it worked for me)

Once again though, unless you want to become pregnant you must use some form of birth control. If none is available, stick to foreplay.

I suggest you get in touch with your MD or get to a planned parenthood--NOW. For some reason I believe you are under 18 so Plan B; if it can be used must be obtained from a prescriber. Secondly you need some sex education, a check up, and birth control discussions.

This is not something to sit and wait around on.