alright. tonight was another one of those nights for me, and i have a few questions as a result.
ok, as i was fingering her tonight, i came upon an area that felt really out of the ordinary. it was kinda the way people have described the g spot, only it was like very squishy and LARGE. any idea what that might have been?
and...as a was fingering her, i realised two things..
1) my gf didnt know what her clit was..(clitoris, i said that too.)
2) i couldnt find hers. i used like 4 different fingers, sometimes 2 two hold her labia majora apart, and 2 to search. really, it was crazy. what i DID find was this smallish hole thing, any ideas what that was?
please, and thank you.
the clitoris isn't really near the vaginal opening. It's well above there, and usually covered by its hood. It's kind of hard to describe where it is, but it's in the middle, between the lips evenly I mean. My suggestion, watch some porn and figure out that way. :p
> 2) i couldnt find hers. i used like 4 different fingers, sometimes 2 two hold her labia majora apart, and 2 to search. really, it was crazy.
My article gives you instructions for finding the clitoris by tracing:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new_sex/16420-pls_help_newbys_get_starte...
An illustration (pg. 2 of article):
http://www.scarleteen.com/body/female_anatomy_2.html
i tried that...maybe i brushed passed it and didnt notice..
i did spend a few min. on the upper part (basically where that second one says the clitoris is at) and had no luck...
but thanks for the answers guys :)
it won't be prominent at all. what you'll feel more is sort of like a very thin shaft under her skin right where the labia come together at the top. you'll probably only be able to feel it when she's really aroused. the tip of that is the tip of the clitoris, that being the clitoral shaft. she has it, but it may just be so unnoticable you won't be able to feel it at all.
and the hole could be her urethra, or you may be referring to the hood that is over the clit. it's hard to tell from what's described whether it's either of those.
alright, thanks again.
the hole was kinda small, and when i tried rubbing around it, i got a fairly decent response...it was inside, but not that far in. also, i put my finger on top (index) and the hole was about the size of the tip of my finger.
im guessing no one can tell me what that massive spongie part was?
Yeah, G Spot sir. If it was not too far inside, and on the front interior wall, yeah, G Spot.
OK, Champ, here is another set of illustrations that may be more helpful:
http://www.luckymojo.com/faqs/altsex/vulva.html
[QUOTE=Akitsa]Yeah, G Spot sir. If it was not too far inside, and on the front interior wall, yeah, G Spot.[/QUOTE]
it was uh...i dont remember where...lol, but it was kinda big..
that helped as much as the others. they helped, i KNOW where it is...i just didnt find it...lol :o :cool:
remember it is like the batcave you can fine it once but you might not fine it again...lol:D
I've never had a problem finding the Batcave. It's right underneath my mansion. I also know where my GF's clitoris is, that's because I'm Batman.
go batman go batman it is your birthday:D
good job....lol..
i rather hear good news then bad...to much drama...
If you weren't on the wall of the vagina but rather up in the middle somewhere you can feel the cervix. The cervix can feels like a large spongy thing hanging down in the vagina with a hole in the middle of it like the size of your finger.
I remember when I was young this boyfriend I had found that thing and started playing with it. HA! As if it were something that was suppose to feel good.
then i guess i may have found that spot?
alas, with all the massive teen-chaos going on between us, i doubt i shall find myself in the position to try to find hers ever again :(
It's not hard. I wouldn't spend too much time looking for it or she may think your digging for gold! lol! Insert your finger about 2 inches from the actual opening of the vagina. If you just massage the entire area right there (up towards her pubic bone) you'll be fine. I know that there isn't any particular "spot" but rather the area right there probably about a one inch radias or so. When I massage my own I use my middle finger and my second knuckle never actually enters the inside. And to tell you the truth, all the walls in there feel the same to me. I have never noticed the feeling of a "spongy area" that's any different than the rest of the vagina walls.
But don't stay there. Come out and work on the outside a little keeping it well lubricated from the secretions inside and then go back in. I know I don't like for my husband to massage my g spot area without a tongue on the clit and outside area also! Me like it all!
[QUOTE=champloo]it was uh...i dont remember where...lol, but it was kinda big..
that helped as much as the others. they helped, i KNOW where it is...i just didnt find it...lol :o :cool:[/QUOTE]
Well if you pushed upwards (towards the front wall of the vagina and not the anal wall) then you my good sir have found the G-Spot, it's fairly easy to find again. If you insert your index finger palmside up and once past the pubic bone (very hard to miss by the way) and then crook your finger in a "come here" motion you should find it fairly quickly. :cool: Pressure on the area can make her feel like she has to pee (but she won't) just press firmly but gently as it's very sensitive.
RS