For several weeks/months after puberty, semen sometimes takes on a slightly yellow cast. Later it turns clear or milky white and remains like this throughout life.
If you are masturbating often then wet dreams will not happen as the body has no need to do this. You may only experience a handful of nocternal emissions during your lifetime. Worry not for you are normal.
ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months, and we haven't done anything sexual yet. I really want to start things moving with him but dont really know how to. I think he is scared to make the move as he knows I have had sex before as he is quite a bit younger than me. i dont know how I can make the move without scaring him or making him feel uncomfortable.
I know i should talk to him about this, but I dont know how to start the conversation again without making him feel uncomforatble.
Well, Jenny, it depends upon your age. If you are eighteen or so, simply open his fly. He will get the idea. If you are younger, keep wondering. More people regret starting too soon than waiting too long.
[QUOTE=Jenny]
I know i should talk to him about this, but I dont know how to start the conversation again without making him feel uncomforatble.[/QUOTE]
Just be direct and honest. He may be uncomfortable, but it's something people just have to get over when they start being sexual. Once he realises you are talking about getting it on with each other, it is highly unlikely he will run away.
If you've been together this long, he's probably thinking about it too, and wondering how to bring it up without scaring you off. Society often trains us men to assume that women don't want physical or enjoy intimacy or that it's an inconvenience for them or they only do it to make us happy, so you should make it clear to your guy that it's something you want and you'd like to consensually decide together with him. (Heck, depending on your school and/or religious upbringing, the women may have been trained to believe they have little or no sexual desire as well.) Really, remembering this aspect of male socialization will probably explain a lot about the way men act toward women regarding physical intimacy.
Sooner or later, he will realise what you did and he will be so thankful that you didn't just sit there trying to "drop hints" or use "word tricks" or whatever to make him understand. (Really, as a guy, I can't stand the way women expect us to read their minds. It is extremely frustrating, and I really value a woman who is as direct with me as I am with her.)
The male is constantly producing sperm, in the testicles, and semen, in the vas deferens and prostate. Mostly it is reabsorbed by the body and some trickles out when you pee. If there is so much accumulation that it can neither be reabsorbed nor stored, a nocturnal emission (wet dream) occurs.
If you are ejaculating regularly from jacking off or whatever, it never accumulates to the point where the body spontaneously ejaculates. This is not a predictable happening like our periods. It happens when the body needs it to happen.
The "chunks" you describe are relatively solid semen. If you watch them for a while they will liquify and be absorde by the tissue or whatever. Each ejaculation contains hundreds of millions of sperm but they only comprise about ten percent of the fluid volume. You are squirting, fear not.
jenny you and me are in the same boat... i want more and i don't know how to bring it up.. my boyfriend is younger then me too but i haven't had sex yet i am really new to everything... thanks alot for posting your question i got alot of help!
For several weeks/months after puberty, semen sometimes takes on a slightly yellow cast. Later it turns clear or milky white and remains like this throughout life. [/QUOTE]
OOPS! I misspoke.
That should've read as follows:
For several weeks/months after purberty, semen is clear. Later it turns milky white and sometimes takes on a slightly yellow cast and remains like this....
I have to agree with Brandye in that if the two of you are over 18, simply--
a) place your hand over the fly of his pants and wiggle the mound underneath from side to side a couple of times, then--
b) open his fly and explore, then--
c) open the fly of his underpants/boxers and bring his penis out in the open, then...........
The best time to talk about anything sexual is at a time when the two of you are not about to get it on or be disturbed. Tell him that you want to talk to him about this and you want him to participate in the discussion.
Be aware of the fragile male ego and how easily it can be bruised or place him on the defensive. You do not want this to happen so choose words that disarm his fears and that are positive with regard to him.
Tell him that you have been thinking about taking your romantic encounters to the next level and wonder what he thinks about it. If he is at all hesitant, tell him that you are ready willing and able, yet only when he is. Moose_hd has some sage advise on this.
> I think he is scared to make the move as he knows I have had sex before as he is quite a bit younger than me.
One of the topics a couple should discuss is the fact that "previous experience" doesn't count for much other than you've broken the ice. Why?
Because each and every time two people come together to make love, it is always going to be a new experience with a very first time. If you've been reading my recent posts you know then that I constantly mention the "mechanics" and the "fine art" of stroking a penis and fingering a clitoris. All of us know the basic mechanics; however, the fine art is unique and specific to each and very one of us. The fine art must be taught, so that our partner can learn to mimic our movements.
The point I'm trying to make is to let your boyfriend know that just because you have had sex before, does not make much difference when the two of you or you and anyone else get together for the first couple of times. What he must realize and understand is that the two of you begin at the beginning and learn about each other's specific "fine art" and how to incorporate the nuances into your love making.
There is little or no difference whether one or both people have had prior experience or not. When a couple come together to form a new partnership, all the "dials" are reset to zero, so to speak. If you can make him understand this important concept, then it should relieve his angst and trepidation.
so is it cum or not?plz
In a word: Yes!
For several weeks/months after puberty, semen sometimes takes on a slightly yellow cast. Later it turns clear or milky white and remains like this throughout life.
If you are masturbating often then wet dreams will not happen as the body has no need to do this. You may only experience a handful of nocternal emissions during your lifetime. Worry not for you are normal.
ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months, and we haven't done anything sexual yet. I really want to start things moving with him but dont really know how to. I think he is scared to make the move as he knows I have had sex before as he is quite a bit younger than me. i dont know how I can make the move without scaring him or making him feel uncomfortable.
I know i should talk to him about this, but I dont know how to start the conversation again without making him feel uncomforatble.
Please Help :confused:
Jenny :)
Well, Jenny, it depends upon your age. If you are eighteen or so, simply open his fly. He will get the idea. If you are younger, keep wondering. More people regret starting too soon than waiting too long.
[QUOTE=Jenny]
I know i should talk to him about this, but I dont know how to start the conversation again without making him feel uncomforatble.[/QUOTE]
Just be direct and honest. He may be uncomfortable, but it's something people just have to get over when they start being sexual. Once he realises you are talking about getting it on with each other, it is highly unlikely he will run away.
If you've been together this long, he's probably thinking about it too, and wondering how to bring it up without scaring you off. Society often trains us men to assume that women don't want physical or enjoy intimacy or that it's an inconvenience for them or they only do it to make us happy, so you should make it clear to your guy that it's something you want and you'd like to consensually decide together with him. (Heck, depending on your school and/or religious upbringing, the women may have been trained to believe they have little or no sexual desire as well.) Really, remembering this aspect of male socialization will probably explain a lot about the way men act toward women regarding physical intimacy.
Sooner or later, he will realise what you did and he will be so thankful that you didn't just sit there trying to "drop hints" or use "word tricks" or whatever to make him understand. (Really, as a guy, I can't stand the way women expect us to read their minds. It is extremely frustrating, and I really value a woman who is as direct with me as I am with her.)
The male is constantly producing sperm, in the testicles, and semen, in the vas deferens and prostate. Mostly it is reabsorbed by the body and some trickles out when you pee. If there is so much accumulation that it can neither be reabsorbed nor stored, a nocturnal emission (wet dream) occurs.
If you are ejaculating regularly from jacking off or whatever, it never accumulates to the point where the body spontaneously ejaculates. This is not a predictable happening like our periods. It happens when the body needs it to happen.
The "chunks" you describe are relatively solid semen. If you watch them for a while they will liquify and be absorde by the tissue or whatever. Each ejaculation contains hundreds of millions of sperm but they only comprise about ten percent of the fluid volume. You are squirting, fear not.
jenny you and me are in the same boat... i want more and i don't know how to bring it up.. my boyfriend is younger then me too but i haven't had sex yet i am really new to everything... thanks alot for posting your question i got alot of help!
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2]In a word: Yes!
For several weeks/months after puberty, semen sometimes takes on a slightly yellow cast. Later it turns clear or milky white and remains like this throughout life. [/QUOTE]
OOPS! I misspoke.
That should've read as follows:
For several weeks/months after purberty, semen is clear. Later it turns milky white and sometimes takes on a slightly yellow cast and remains like this....
I have to agree with Brandye in that if the two of you are over 18, simply--
a) place your hand over the fly of his pants and wiggle the mound underneath from side to side a couple of times, then--
b) open his fly and explore, then--
c) open the fly of his underpants/boxers and bring his penis out in the open, then...........
The best time to talk about anything sexual is at a time when the two of you are not about to get it on or be disturbed. Tell him that you want to talk to him about this and you want him to participate in the discussion.
Be aware of the fragile male ego and how easily it can be bruised or place him on the defensive. You do not want this to happen so choose words that disarm his fears and that are positive with regard to him.
Tell him that you have been thinking about taking your romantic encounters to the next level and wonder what he thinks about it. If he is at all hesitant, tell him that you are ready willing and able, yet only when he is. Moose_hd has some sage advise on this.
> I think he is scared to make the move as he knows I have had sex before as he is quite a bit younger than me.
One of the topics a couple should discuss is the fact that "previous experience" doesn't count for much other than you've broken the ice. Why?
Because each and every time two people come together to make love, it is always going to be a new experience with a very first time. If you've been reading my recent posts you know then that I constantly mention the "mechanics" and the "fine art" of stroking a penis and fingering a clitoris. All of us know the basic mechanics; however, the fine art is unique and specific to each and very one of us. The fine art must be taught, so that our partner can learn to mimic our movements.
The point I'm trying to make is to let your boyfriend know that just because you have had sex before, does not make much difference when the two of you or you and anyone else get together for the first couple of times. What he must realize and understand is that the two of you begin at the beginning and learn about each other's specific "fine art" and how to incorporate the nuances into your love making.
There is little or no difference whether one or both people have had prior experience or not. When a couple come together to form a new partnership, all the "dials" are reset to zero, so to speak. If you can make him understand this important concept, then it should relieve his angst and trepidation.
Good luck to one and all. Got questions?
well back to the origin of the thread. so if i wait like i week and then cum it will be white and not clear?
btw y cant i sign on to my old sn