Are you stressed? Worried about something? Unsure if you're doing things right?
Maybe you just need to not worry about finishing and focus on the moment at hand, and whats happening currrently. There is NOTHING wrong with you at all! Sometimes when I give my man oral, it only lasts 10 minutes. Other times, when Im taking my time, it can take over 30.
I agree with buffy! Why don't u just try relaxing and take in everything going on around u? I think that ur like me! it takes alot to get me so excited to finish! You should tell your gril Friend what YOU want to happen, maybe it's not you, maybe it's her! perhaps she's not doing somthing right! so just explain in like a sex story of how you want things to go and be very detailed! i do that with my boyfriend and it works! try that! I'd even be willing to help you is ya need it!
Actually, Penguin's right too. It always gets my Boyfriend revved high when I start talking about what I want him to do to me. (You dont have to plan it out before hand, making it sound like a machanical sex session). It's usually not fun to plan ahead, as it can sometimes cause stress and expectations. Just tell her how much you'd love it if she... and how good it would feel right now if she'd... see? Im sure you'll feel better about this in no time.
i have the same problem, my girlfriend and i have recently been together... and since we started I can't finish... I get close, like painfully close, but never all the way, can anyone help me?
hey, dont even worry.
communication is what its about. chances are, this girl feels like it's her fault too, you know?
first of all, know thyself. masturbate- learn what feels good, what that move or spot is that makes you go over the edge.
Then, if you're in a situation, say your girlfriend's going down on you, dont feel like you're being rude by making suggestions. I always like i a little direction, you know, a "keep doing that" so i know what works or a "use your hands too." don't be nervous about sounding offensive, girls, especially inexperienced girls, want all the reinforcement they can get to know what they're doing is right.
Perhaps you are worrying to much?
Are you stressed? Worried about something? Unsure if you're doing things right?
Maybe you just need to not worry about finishing and focus on the moment at hand, and whats happening currrently. There is NOTHING wrong with you at all! Sometimes when I give my man oral, it only lasts 10 minutes. Other times, when Im taking my time, it can take over 30.
I hope this helps you a little,
Buffy
I agree with buffy! Why don't u just try relaxing and take in everything going on around u? I think that ur like me! it takes alot to get me so excited to finish! You should tell your gril Friend what YOU want to happen, maybe it's not you, maybe it's her! perhaps she's not doing somthing right! so just explain in like a sex story of how you want things to go and be very detailed! i do that with my boyfriend and it works! try that! I'd even be willing to help you is ya need it!
<3 Penguin! ;-)
Actually, Penguin's right too. It always gets my Boyfriend revved high when I start talking about what I want him to do to me. (You dont have to plan it out before hand, making it sound like a machanical sex session). It's usually not fun to plan ahead, as it can sometimes cause stress and expectations. Just tell her how much you'd love it if she... and how good it would feel right now if she'd... see? Im sure you'll feel better about this in no time.
Good luck
i have the same problem, my girlfriend and i have recently been together... and since we started I can't finish... I get close, like painfully close, but never all the way, can anyone help me?
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hey, dont even worry.
communication is what its about. chances are, this girl feels like it's her fault too, you know?
first of all, know thyself. masturbate- learn what feels good, what that move or spot is that makes you go over the edge.
Then, if you're in a situation, say your girlfriend's going down on you, dont feel like you're being rude by making suggestions. I always like i a little direction, you know, a "keep doing that" so i know what works or a "use your hands too." don't be nervous about sounding offensive, girls, especially inexperienced girls, want all the reinforcement they can get to know what they're doing is right.
I gave an answer to this problem in another thread, yesterday.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_him/17592-how_long_a_blow_job.h...
thanks, thats really does help, doc
ahh i see....interesting
does this sort of thing happen alot for the first time for a guy? j.w.