Well, first define you meaning of "cum"..do you mean an orgasm, or actually releasing fluid? Big difference. I can have multiple orgasms, but have only "squirted" for lack of a better word... 3 times. And those three times were from using the Bullet...which is an awesome sex toy. I cannot masterbate with a normal dilod or just my fingers and receive any pleasure. The bullet saved my life and sanity (since my sex drive is bigger than my boyfriends).

Anywho, clarify which you are specifically referring to..that'll help people help you :)

Go to Chick Chat and read Female Sexual Response and a few others buried deep in there.

a lot of times i hear about womens' cumming (releasing fluid)..
can anyone tell me if a women actually cum like us (guys) ???!!
also: when do they cum?only when they have an orgasm??

As I mentioned earlier, I have only actually cum 3 times. Both times scared the hell out of me. It was an INTENSE orgasm with a sex toy (by myself) and the boom. I didn't know what happened at first!! But, god I felt great afterwards..lol. My typical orgasms do not include releasing a large amount of fluid like that. Hard to explain a female orgasm to a guy, really.. like explaining the male orgasm to a girl who has never "squirted" i guess??