See your doctor. You need a complete panel of blood tests to include hormone levels and a complete physical exam. Even if this is a psychological problem, physical cause needs to be ruled out before any action is taken.
You and your doctor decise where to go from there.
This is NO reason to feel suicidal! First of all, people can live beautiful lives without having sex. Monks do it all the time. Second of all, it just maybe means you need to try harder. I'm having sort of the same problem- squeezing an orgasm out of my vagina is so hard, but anal feels so easy!
Come'on, i hope you come back to this site and read this! You have everything to live for! Give it time! Try buying a toy, maybe a fake pussy and try getting turned on erect and thrusting inside it. Your family loves you and if the girl is aggressive like you describe she probably has no problem with you learning new things. Have you talked it over with her?
Hmm....i usually know what to say... but Ive got nothing on this one. Sorry... :(
Maybe spice it up a bit? do some kinky things, or add another person to the sex? i dont know if youd feel comfortable doing that, given your situation and all... just a suggestion
i have a lot to say on this
im a virgin and im 13 and ive only made out with 1 girl...shocking i know.
But sex shudnt be your life it should be done as an extra and i dont care what any1 sez im sticking with what im saying.
why no make out with her more for her pleasure maybe finger her for her sake.
I suggest u spend more time going out to dinner or even ordering in pizza and rent a movie sit and relax with her.
DONT KILL YOURSELF even if your life is bad think of your family and your girl. they would be so upset if you did...
I would say go to two types of doctors, go get a physical and the blood tests, also go see a psychologist, it could be a mental thing just as much as a pysical thing. Hang in there bud, just go try both doctors and see what you can find.
I agree with the above posts, there is no need to think you need to kill yourself over something like this. See a doctor and have things checked out. Hopefully everything will be fine man
See your doctor. You need a complete panel of blood tests to include hormone levels and a complete physical exam. Even if this is a psychological problem, physical cause needs to be ruled out before any action is taken.
You and your doctor decise where to go from there.
This is NO reason to feel suicidal! First of all, people can live beautiful lives without having sex. Monks do it all the time. Second of all, it just maybe means you need to try harder. I'm having sort of the same problem- squeezing an orgasm out of my vagina is so hard, but anal feels so easy!
Come'on, i hope you come back to this site and read this! You have everything to live for! Give it time! Try buying a toy, maybe a fake pussy and try getting turned on erect and thrusting inside it. Your family loves you and if the girl is aggressive like you describe she probably has no problem with you learning new things. Have you talked it over with her?
Hmm....i usually know what to say... but Ive got nothing on this one. Sorry... :(
Maybe spice it up a bit? do some kinky things, or add another person to the sex? i dont know if youd feel comfortable doing that, given your situation and all... just a suggestion
i have a lot to say on this
im a virgin and im 13 and ive only made out with 1 girl...shocking i know.
But sex shudnt be your life it should be done as an extra and i dont care what any1 sez im sticking with what im saying.
why no make out with her more for her pleasure maybe finger her for her sake.
I suggest u spend more time going out to dinner or even ordering in pizza and rent a movie sit and relax with her.
DONT KILL YOURSELF even if your life is bad think of your family and your girl. they would be so upset if you did...
I would say go to two types of doctors, go get a physical and the blood tests, also go see a psychologist, it could be a mental thing just as much as a pysical thing. Hang in there bud, just go try both doctors and see what you can find.
Go and see you regular doctor and explain it to him he will know where to go from there and help you out
I agree with the above posts, there is no need to think you need to kill yourself over something like this. See a doctor and have things checked out. Hopefully everything will be fine man
i agree with brandye. go see a oc dude, it could be a medical problem