[QUOTE=TallieFairey;236811]Hey,
So i've read loads of posts and around the website about the location of the Clitoris, I also looked at the website Clitical (or sumthin like that), looked at myself in a mirror, felt around, looked at various other pictures to conpare myself to. I cannot find it, at all! I know where It is supposed to be and I know that everyone is different and 'unique' but, I honestly cannot find it anywhere!
Is it possible not to have one? O.O Im really self concious now and worried that Ill never be able to enjoy sex, masturbation, oral or anything. Cos quite honestly, I don't.....Except for dry humping a pillow.[/QUOTE]

ummmm have you had a Gyno exam.. ?
You are a woman I take it....

maybe you have a little one ? go to the place it should be
and experiment with rubbing or a vibrator ..

It is important for young girls and woman to have
an exam before coming sexually active.

Worried with a lol after it appears to me to be either
a prank post or someone who is not mature enough
to be playing these games?

Im sure a hell that all the gyno's in your arEa are men
damn even here in New Zealand in my small town we have 2
so that excuse is out the door....

You have a clitoris. Visit your doctor or a midwife or someone familiar with those parts and get some teaching. Then bring in valid questions.

Many clitoris are small when not sexually aroused.

I mean you might not can "see" it but can you feel it?
When you massage that general area... there will be like a nub or bump that gives you a tingle.
If you can get off by dry humping a pillow then you have a clit b/c otherwise you wouldn't get off b/c there is no vaginal penetration and myself don't really get THAT much arousal from just rubbing the outside of the vaginal opening. It feels good but not so good that it would give me an orgasm.

Here is an article that may help you learn to masturbate:

Try locating your clitoris with this help.

...or with help from here.

...and even here.

Please click on the Index for more articles that discuss the female "O".

With all of the variations that have been documented I would say that having no clitoris is the rarest of all. But, just as there is the micro penis I'm sure that there is a female equivilent. It's probubly small or hidden. Some women have deeply embedded clitoris' that only becomes slightly visable once fully aroused. It's best to see a Dr and address these concerns with him/her.

Ye Gawds girl you want me to come to your place
and show you????
GO TO A DOCTOR or someone similar there is nothing we can do
for you other then tell you where it is and how to stimulate it....

Family planning/gynochologist and a heck of alot of reading will help you

or what about asking your mother?????

Calm down and get real.

* Many doctors of women's issues are men, not all are.

* If you want to visit a woman gyno, then ASK FOR ONE!

* Your concern of molestation is unfounded. A male physician always has a woman nurse present in the exam room.
This is as much for her comfort and protection as it is for his.

We understand your angst and hesitancy, however, you really need to find a doctor that you are comfortable with and then develop a report with her/him.

> > we can do for you other then tell you where it is

There is an old saying that goes: "a picture is worth ten thousand words."
Apparently, we cannot even do that. You are being way too timid.

> I'm just wondering why I seem to be so different cause most people with help from guides and photos can find theres. I cant. Its not like im gonna ask someone in real life so i came here,

While there are variations to the theme, I rather doubt there is much if any difference between you and any of your friends or a stranger on the street. In order to assist you in finding your clitoris, since you know where it is, is to lubricate your fingers and go exploring, again. A lubricated finger will make your clitoris much more sensitive to the touch.

Also, when you go exploring, use a hand mirror and light and do some comparisons between what you see in the mirror and what is presented in the photographs.

I have a friend (she's 25 and sexually active) who asked me if its normal for a clitoris to get hard. My response was of course it does, that's why my wife calls it girlie wood. She said the reason she asked is because a friend of hers said it was "freaky" because hers never did that.

My point is, you're normal. Some, as LustyLisa and others have said, are more hidden than others.

All women have one. Yours might be small.

Don't take this the wrong way, but are you Jewish or Islamic?

I ask this, because in some sects of Judaism and Islam, both girls and boys get circumsized, and female circumcision(sp) involves the removal of the clitoral hood and clitoris.

Or it could just be really, really small. Play with yourself and see if you find it.

There are no variants of Judaism in which clitorectomy is practiced. Only very few and very extreme Islamic sects do this. The practice of female crcrumcision is among mostly pre-literate societies on the East coast of Africa.

I see your problem. I have a very large clitoris, and I couldn't find mine for a very long time. Just keep looking, keep experimenting, especially with vibrators as they will DEFINATELY find it. Previous answers about gyo exams are obvious.