No im not a cross dresser.
and yet im still find myself obsessed with the way women look in certain clothing.
especially blouses/skirts that are silk with buttons.
I love to have sex with the clothing still on.
and if the attire suits its extra fun to roleplay. (school girl or secretary)
I would like to add that this clothing fetish goes beyond the women wearing the clothes. I have seen women who on any other day i would find to be the opposite of attractive. and yet cause of what they are wearing i find their sex appeal almost irresistible.
So why do you feel this is a fetish? I have a thing for guys when they wear flannel shirts & work boots.
when i get into a sexual relationship with a serious gf it is something i will talk about and request just the same as someone who has a foot fetish would also talk about.
But in so many ways clothing is meant to be a sexual lure to attract the opposite sex, as it is to make us feel good about ourselves. I love to wear a silk blouse; one b/c of the feel on my skin and the way it hangs, but I also wear it b/c I want my s/o to get a feel of it! Many times it's a major turn on to peel only certain layers of clothing off; meanwhile, leaving other layers on for. It adds to the intrigue...