I'm in an open relationship with this girl "Katie". We've been dating a while, and like each other a lot, but we're both sleeping with other people too. We've talked about this, and we're both happy with the way things are now.
So anyway, we were having our second round this evening, and had been having intercourse for more than 20 min and I was just not even close to cumming...but then when I thought about a girl I'm having a 3rd date with this week - and probably going to hvae sex with - I just totally lost it and had an orgasm.
Why was the thought of having sex with another girl whom I've never even seen naked, more of a turn on than ACTUALLY having sex with a naked girl who I'm very attracted to? Can someone explain the psychology behind this?


Probably the mystery behind the second girl. You may like the fact that she respects herself enough to not have sex with many men including you, anytime you ask. Or just thinking about the unknown. Who knows.
[QUOTE=Jiffylube854;180511]
Why was the thought of having sex with another girl whom I've never even seen naked, more of a turn on than ACTUALLY having sex with a naked girl who I'm very attracted to? Can someone explain the psychology behind this?[/QUOTE]
Something to do with 'forbidden fruit' or similar?