About three weeks ago, my girlfriend, who moved out of state about 6 months ago, came to visit. While she was here, me and her spent lots of time together. We were in her hotel room with the people she came with, and we all decided to go to the hot tub. We were in there a little while talking, and everyone else went back to the room while my girlfriend and i stayed alone in the hot tub. I was across from her so i floated to her, and i told her i loved her. We had never made out before. I kissed her, and we both started to make out for the first time. before I knew it, I realized i was fingering her. I did for a few minutes, then she pushed me away and went inside. I sat alone for a little while. I went back inside and tried to get her to just lay with me but she told me to leave her alone, so I left. She was very, very distant when i went back inside. I know i am the first and only guy to have fingered her, and kiss her for that matter. I don't know if she was mad at me or if I hurt her to bad or what. She is 15 and I am 16, if that has anything to do with anything, and we are both virgins. I am positive of this. Please tell me what i did wrong.
JRobida999 
P.S.-I have never touched a girl like this before, the most i had ever done was make out with a girl.
She was not ready for that; neither were you. Now you are each wondering what happened and neither knows what to do about it. Given your ages and distance, it is not likely that you will be seeing each other very much. What you "know" may or may not be accurate. If you see her, express concern. There is nothing to feel badly nor apologize for.
Life goes on.
I cannot say for sure why she reacted like that,but maybe she was not ready for being fingered.
As you said you were "doing it for a few moments",and than she pushed you away.Maybe she was not feeling comfortable and didn´t know how to react and what to say.
Consider that you both are virgins,and you said you never touched girl on that way maybe you should read more about how to finger her,because too much pushing into her(especialy if she is virgin)can be very uncomfortable and even painful!
So i think first you should talk with her!
Make her to tell you why she reacted like that,and than if i was right (if you hurted her) say that you are sorry and that you didn´t want to hurt her,but only to make her feeling good.
And offer her nice going out with an "idea" of trieing it again,but only if she is ready to try it again!!!
Before that inform yourself how to do better fingering!!!
Wish you luck!
You said that you loved her, if that was the first time you said it to her maybe she thought that you only said that because you wanted to do more with her. You have to talk to her and find out exactly what she is thinking and why she acted that way, and let her know that its not what she thinks, you thought that she was ready for that.
I did tell her I love her, because i do with my whole heart. That was not the first time I had ever said it to her. And if it was, I woulndt have just said it to try to get her to be more intimate with me. I really do love this girl, and I hope I didnt hurt her. Any info or places to find info on how to do better fingering or otherwise? (not sex) any help is greatly appreciated.
JRobida999