Ok, The title pretty much explains it all. i don't lubricate. Ever. It doesn't matter how turned on I get or how long my bf tries to help, I just don't. I've been using ky jelly for the last few months now, but I'm sure this isn't right, and it's beginning to affect my sex life, as I feel so embaressed. Please, can anyone help me?
Tue, 04/17/2007 - 07:24
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I don't lubricate- help!!!
What about when you masterbate?
if you are quite worried about it maybe a trip to the local WGP may help.
Otherwise maybe you may be able to try a water based lubricant in the meantime to stop any further embarassment you may be feeling.
Some women just don't produce a lot...also some medications can dry you out..like sinus meds...they do that to me.
Nothing wrong w/ needing a little extra lube.
This is the reason "personal lubricants" are sold. No big deal. Keep the K-Y handy.
My boyfriend and i NEVER you lube, but im usually pretty wet, so it doesnt matter. You should look into buying personal lubricants like Brandye said.
Talk with your GYN, they know more about your lower regions than we do. But Brandye is right, you aren't the only one who needs them!
I use to have that problem, I mean it HURT and I was turned on. But then my guy found a spot on my neck (and a couple other's we won't talk about) that if he kisses there I get wet fast. He has been mean enough to come behind me and hit the spot really lightly and "innocnet peck" like whileIm talking because he knows it makes me get all hot and bothered. Use the KY and explore.