I have been with my current boyfriend for almost ten months. We have been sexually active for a while, and I found out I was blessed with the ability for multiple orgasms. Recently, I had my period, and we went for a week without sex (quite a long time for us). However, since we resumed, I haven't been able to orgasm. I get turned on, and I enjoy the sex, but I just can't get "over the edge." This is a really big change, and I don't know if something is wrong with me. It is depressing me and really starting to affect our relationship. He gets so much pleasure out of causing my climaxes. Has anyone else ever experienced this? Does anyone have any ideas? Thanks.
Sun, 07/17/2005 - 00:39
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I don't know what is wrong with me
dont try to orgasim to just let go and enjoy the pleasure. this is probably getting you frustrated or ur thinking about it tooo much during the act, i find that affects me alot.
We women go through these stages. And unlike other advice, men react faster after a break and we women tend to react more slowly.
Have a few goes on your own and relax. It will come back.
You make it sound like this problem is caused by your period, however having been with your boyfriend for 10 months I am assuming you have had your period before so I dont see how this can be the problem.... I have no idea what to suggest, normally going without sex for a while makes it better... in my experience anyway