My boyfriend and I both lost our virginities to eachother, so wea re new and unexpirienced with sex. He said he really wants me to be on top. Ive tried it once; I was positioned staright up, my knees bent, up towards the cieling, and I bounced up and down, but my legs got tired so quickly.What is a really comfortable way for me to be on top? His penis isnt very big, so when i tried it before, he slipped out easily, and i dont think the girl laying on top would work. Ive heard that not trying to bounce, just grinding is more comfortable, but will that still get him off? Id appreciate answers from women as to what is most comfortable, and answers from guys as to what will feel best for them if the girls on top. specifically, how to arrange my body, especially my legs so theyre not tired so easily, and how to move. thanks! :confused:
Thu, 04/19/2007 - 02:18
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i dont know how to be the girl on top
The closer you lye to his face with your face the easier it is to get the position correct. You don't have to be directly body to body on top of him, just enough so you can occasionally reach down to kiss him.
If your legs fatigue easily, do some squats and lunges at home to strengthen them up.
I can't sit straight up.. its not comfortable to me.
I usually lean forward, supporting myself w/ my arms... and just grind against him... yes he'll feel it :)
I also can lay on his chest..kissing his neck...and this works too.
The guy can help by guiding your hips w/ his hands... or he also lifts up a little to help get the motion going.
If you sit upright and bounce up and down, you will wear yourself out. Lean forward and find a position to rock back and forth and wiggle side to side. The first for him, the second for you.
I've found that sitting upright, with your legs behind him and him sitting up as well works wonders... if he's sitting up and yall are watching each other, and focusing on watch other's facial expressions, i've found it to be grand... Just like, wrap your legs around his torso....and see how that works for you.
and just to add, just do what comes naturally,honestly nobody is taking notes or trying to "score" the act..it's all good!
i have a similar issue too my legs get tired quickly when im on top. But something ive found ....straddle him on the couch, its wonderful and it supports his back and you can hold on to the back of the couch for balance and levrage. This will also get you used to the feeling of being on top in the bed and you will get more comfortable with it.
Dont be afraid to talk to your bf about your concerns, he can help make you more comfortable. Just enjoy yourself.
A couple of tips.
1. slowly lower yourself onto his penis..(psst he feels everything)
2.if you want to bounce up and down ..DON'T DO IT THE WHOLE TIME IT WEARS EVERY GIRL OUT! lol do it for about 30 seconds at the most then move on.
3. grinding back and fourth sort of like riding a horse feels awesome for both of you.
4.sink his penis completely into you and move your hips in circles..feels fantastic.
any other questions just ask.
hope that helped
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