ok i am a virgin fist off and one of my good friends told me that the best thing to do is lose ur virginity to someone u realli love cause she regrets loosing hers to someone she didn't love so ive been waiting but back to my problem this girl likes me that i met in school and i think i like her but i dont know, like she's cool and all but i dont know if i like her anough and she keeps trying to have sex with me and wants to go out and i do sorta like her but i dont think anough to go out with her.
what should i do or any advise any advise would be helpful?
i wear size 14 shoes so she thought my dick was big and also she felt my dick and knows its big or at least she tells me its big and she says she wants to please me and stuff
Why put the proverbial cart before the horse? I am a traditionalist and believe in dating and courtship and all that before jumping into the hay with a relative stranger. If you do not want to wait, then do yourself a favor and wait long enough until you know the person better and have a better notion about how you feel about her.
When the desire overwhelms the fear, then you'll be ready.
no offence but she sounds like a bit of a slut and just interested in sex. i think you should go out with her but not do anything sexual for at least a month or longer just to prove to yourself that she isn't just after sex. If she accepts that you want to wait then you know she likes you for real. You should do it with someone you love or really like because you would feel crap if she used you just for sex.
go for it!
"no offence but she sounds like a bit of a slut and just interested in sex"
And there's a problem with that? Why? This is just practice not marriage we're talking here.
Don't call her a slut just because she is interested in sex. Why shouldn't a woman like sex?
Because they've been taught to think that way, cycle, and they haven't been out in the world enough to know otherwise.
Why virginity is such a handicap. It is made out to be some grand and glorious 'gift' thing whereas the truth is when a woman throws herself into a man's arms, she wants some assurance that he knows what to do with her when he catches her - and vice versa.
i think slut means a girl who doesnt only like sex, but who also wants to bang/flirt/makeout/dirty talk many many different men without being faithful to one particular one. Which is, in other words, paris hilton. :p
And there's a problem with that, aussiedude?
BTW just because she enjoys many men does NOT mean ANY man will do.
Even sluts have their preferences.
I, for example, really, really, REALLY enjoy 40 year old, 6 foot tall, witty, and wicked teddybears!!
They are irresitable to me - like catnip!!
Hmm, so you DO have a bear fetish, EEK!
Well, fur is a very masculine thing and we all know how much I love men!
well really you want to look at what you want it seems this girl has no problem so you don't need to go feeling guilty that she "gave" it to you and nothing came of it. If you want to get going then get to it, it is all learning experience ya know if she is ok with it and seems to be then start asking yourself if your ok with it. going out with her is not a proposal of marriage and you won't get to know her better unless you do, how much do you know about her ? you won't be able to make up your mind unless you get to know her