One night, I was doing my first time of playing with myself I was fingering myself while watching sex. Then I started bleeding I hadn't had my period yet and turns out I had not clipped my nails before doing this ::rolls eyes:: I scratched my vagina. Eerr It was my first time so next time I know what to do.
Sun, 09/20/2009 - 20:59
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I did the stupidest thing...


Ouch that would hurt, my first time I made sure I wouldn't hurt myself, so I used lube and had clipped my nails
Oh K,
Lemme tell you about being a horny teen boy. Most of us masturbate every day or two and often more than once a day. Take "most" and shorten the time span between any two orgasms to just a half hour or less as would be the case with multiple orgasms.
Guys usually stroke the shaft with such enthusiasm, vigor, intensity, and, focus, that we sometimes rub the skin raw in one or more places--often over a hot spot as would often happen if we spent an afternoon/evening alone. Fast forward a couple of days and a scab forms, yet because it is on a hot spot, it is difficult to keep from rubbing the area. This can really be a pain--physically as well as emotionally. GgrummpH.
As a young lad I quickly learnt that a jar of Vasaline Jel was handy to have around :):)
Doc, you just told the story of my teenage years in one simple paragraph.
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;245151]
Guys usually stroke the shaft with such enthusiasm, vigor, intensity, and, focus, that we sometimes rub the skin raw in one or more places--often over a hot spot as would often happen if we spent an afternoon/evening alone. Fast forward a couple of days and a scab forms, yet because it is on a hot spot, it is difficult to keep from rubbing the area. This can really be a pain--physically as well as emotionally. GgrummpH.[/QUOTE]
Especially emotional pain I would say. It's extremely hard (and shameful) to explain this situation to a girlfriend.
[QUOTE=KMB;245142]One night, I was doing my first time of playing with myself I was fingering myself while watching sex. Then I started bleeding I hadn't had my period yet and turns out I had not clipped my nails before doing this ::rolls eyes:: I scratched my vagina. Eerr It was my first time so next time I know what to do.[/QUOTE]
I keep my nails short on the right hand because I have a habit of digging them into my labia when masturbating. :o
[QUOTE=Alexxx;245246]Especially emotional pain I would say. It's extremely hard (and shameful) to explain this situation to a girlfriend.[/QUOTE]
I would hope she'd be kind enough to just "Awwww" and try to help you relax about it. We all have embarrassing moments in life, sexual moments included, and it's the partner's job to roll it off and try to help the embarrassed one do the same.
[QUOTE=Alexxx;245246]Especially emotional pain I would say. It's extremely hard (and shameful) to explain this situation to a girlfriend.[/QUOTE]
Yeah I could imagine. It'd be rather hard to explain to a girlfriend why you have a scab on your penis. ;):p
[QUOTE=RexyRay;245274]As a young lad I quickly learnt that a jar of Vasaline Jel was handy to have around :):)[/QUOTE]
Ewww! Vaseline??? Wouldn't that be awfully messy??? :confused: Why not just buy a thing of KY jelly or Astroglide? Or are you saying you used the vaseline on scabs?
It's a lubricant. All lube is kind of messy.
I find when I masturabte..I dont go inside..I rub my clitoris and it gets me off nicely
Before my gf and I started having sex, we helped each other masturbate. She forgot to clip her nails on day and after she helped me get off, I was scratched and bleeding from one area of my penis. It hurt alot. I let it heal over a few weeks before I did anything to it. Nail trimming is essential!
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;246013]A clitoral stimulator, a smal vibe with a flat head, is just the thing if one wants long nails and orgasms via masturbation.
Less than $20 at any store or site selling such products.[/QUOTE]
Without being graphic, that would not suit my masturbation style. It's not my "working hand" that I have the issues with.
A clitoral stimulator, a smal vibe with a flat head, is just the thing if one wants long nails and orgasms via masturbation.
Less than $20 at any store or site selling such products.
Yes, but you'd not have to worry about scratches etc. And I did say - if you wanted both long nails and orgasms, didn't I? After all you wouldn't want to break a nail and then have to explain how.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;246108]Yes, but you'd not have to worry about scratches etc. And I did say - if you wanted both long nails and orgasms, didn't I? After all you wouldn't want to break a nail and then have to explain how.[/QUOTE]
Trust me I know my own style enough to know that even with the best vibrator, I would still dig my nails into myself. Therefore I sacrifice my nails in the name of pleasure. No dramas.
Interesting; esp since a clitoral stimulator type vibe is not inserted anywhere.
The bullet vibes are interesting. The new types of KY jelly and Oh, have a towel ready ~ just in case. Just be sure to lock the doors so you don't see kids peeking in when you least expect it.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;246246]Interesting; esp since a clitoral stimulator type vibe is not inserted anywhere.[/QUOTE]
Inserting anything was never part of the problem.
Using vibes specifically designed for that specific purpose delivers the best possible performance thus ensuring a better outcome.
If you want to keep the nails, either refine your technique or use a vibe meant for what you want to do or both.
I find my claws...useful.
I'm happy with my technique thanks, I love using the fingers I was born with.
Which explains why you wrote in and started the thread.
I didn't start the thread, I responded to let the Original Poster know we had something in common.
[QUOTE=nuttychick;249520]Is there an english translation for this:eek::D[/QUOTE]
"How can you do that? You have to take care of yourself while digging your finger into your UPS. Please take care next time."
I, personally, have never put my finger into the UPS. I don't think you can do that to a company. :p
On topic, I've had this happen to me once before, back when I was dating a guy who apparently didn't understand that if you put a finger with the equivalent of tiger claws into a sensitive area it will hurt something. Real winner, there. :rolleyes: With my current boyfriend I end up sounding like my grandma sometimes. "Let me see your fingernails!"
[QUOTE=cleondann;249518]how can u do that.. u have to tk care of urself. whlile digging ur finger into ur ****. ups.. so , pls tk cre tht next time..;)[/QUOTE]
Is there an english translation for this:eek::D
[QUOTE=Yellow Ledbetter;249524]"How can you do that? You have to take care of yourself while digging your finger into your UPS. Please take care next time."
I, personally, have never put my finger into the UPS. I don't think you can do that to a company. :
[/QUOTE]
lol thanx for that :D
Im damn sure my courier company wouldn't be too impressed if I stuck my finger in them either lol :p;):D
[QUOTE=cleondann;249568]**** means..._____7^)3
knw tht's simple:cool:[/QUOTE]
If you already havent noticed :rolleyes: we all seem to be able to communicate if ENGLISH IS TYPED maybe if you have something to say you could use proper words instead of txt or WTF ever you are using then you will be understood:D
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;246246]Interesting; esp since a clitoral stimulator type vibe is not inserted anywhere.[/QUOTE]
Update 29th May 2010..You can now buy an attachment so you can use an electric Toothbrush as a Clitoral vibrator :)