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I did something bad and now i need help

ok so my boyfriend and i were having sex (on saturday) and well we ran out of condoms so we continued (very bad i know! i yell at people for doing that, and now here i am) anyhow he kind of came a little inside me (he pulled out but not quick enough) anyhow my question is; can i find out if i'm pregnate before my missed period? (i don't expect it for 3 more weeks, but then again you never know) :( i feel awful for having sex without a condom.

get the morning after pill!!! asap. If u dnt wnt a possible baby in 9mnths.

get the pill, they say max 5 days after but each day counts

take it please, or your expecting in 9 months.

if something goes wrong, make sure your bf isnt gonna run.

matter of fact, make sure he is ready for a baby.

yes, the morning-after pill is your best bet.

And if you don't do that, then pray. Because I was in your same position years ago... sex without a condom when I should have... difference is that I didn't pull out. Wether she was havng her period or not I'm not sure... but there's always a chance you'll be fine.

But take that morning-after pill as soon as you can. It's been 3-days already.

i'm a minor i can't get then morning after pill without parent permission, and i cannot tell my parents about my bf ( he is slightly older then me and i'm afrid he'll get in trouble.... plus i know this will sound dumb but if i am technicly preganate right now (let's say i am) i can't abort it, i can't kill my baby (so to speak). and as for my boyfriend i don't want him to drop everything and pay for my baby so i'll have to do my best, but i do want the father to be in it's life so i'll convince him (the dad) to be in it's life in a non financle way

i am assuming you are very young due to being a minor and he isnt a minor? and it is your decision, but if you are pregnant it is going to be pretty hard to hide it from you parents they are going to find out sooner or later. The baby isnt just your responsibility it is his too so why are you trying to "not get him in trouble" you are going to need the help i don't see why you are 'saving your boyfriend the hassle' so to speak it is his issue to you know, he made the decision along with you to have sex without a condom it is his future to that is going to change and yours as well. BUT this is all hypothetical talk go and get your self a pregnancy test and go from there.

i suggest you tell your parents, because they will know eventually that you are pregnant.

its better to tell now and get the pill before they find out when you are big and round.

If it comes to pass that you are pregnant, then carry the baby to term and consider giving it up for adoption. There are many married couples who cannot have children of their own and would love to adopt.

The more important issue is that a child is much better off being raised in a family that is financially able to care for his/her future. It is also very important that the child be raised by a mother and a father who take an active part; rather than a single mom struggling to make ends meet, a father who is not in the picture full time, and, being farmed out to a parent-baby sitter or a baby sitting care service. So, before you poo-poo lthis idea, consider how well you can care for the child and provide for the future needs. I also think that you are way wrong not to involve the boyfriend in the process right now. He needs to take responsibility for his part in this regardless of how it turns out.

If it turns out that you just got a good scare, I hope you learned something. Your collective decision to go ahead and have sex was irresponsible. One lesson you need to learn is how to say "no" and then to do it. I recommend you not have sex again until you can control your emotions and can make better decisions overall.

Honey,

I se someone in your position at least once a week in my surgry (office in N.A.), You have done nothing bad; you have done something very careless and immature. Do not think of sex,or becoming pregnanat, as "bad."

You are going to live through a very long three weeks. I know; I have done it - and was lucky. Take Doc's advice to heart. No one expects you to swear off sex or do any other particular thing. For yourself, make certain you have a good supply of condoms and vaginal jelly. And do consider that there is much to be enjoyed and learned with a penis outside your vagina.

i'm 17 i'll be turning 18 in may thank your brandye for your advice, and doc's too. if i'm pregnate then i'll let my boyfriend know. although doc i agree that the baby should be with a rich family that could give it anything it needs i couldn't let it go. i thank you for not judging me. anyway how soon will i know if i'm pregnate or not?

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