When ever my boyfriend and I have sex I cum in like 2 minutes. I guess he should take it as a compliment, but I would like to enjoy sex longer, how do I do so. I've heard your suppose to think of something else or start counting but that doesnt work for me.
Thu, 03/17/2011 - 12:33
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i cum to fast
Heya, we agre with EvilEvilKiten.[COLOR="Red">WHY STOP!?[/COLOR].and yes RELAX & KEP ON KEPING ON!...
.....also this is just a thought but we would put $$ on the fact you are a youbger person? I may be wrong but its ben experiences in past younger females(gen under 20 ) freak when they cum and yes-want to stop! Learn to enjoy it! Go for the multis next!?!
[color=green]Are you male or female?[/color]
Lol sorry I'm female :o
Welcome! And congratulations on your orgasms!
If you come after 2 minutes, then I suggest you come again! :)
Women can become multi orgasmic and come over and over again. This means sex is certainly not over after one orgasm.
Could you be more specific on what the problem is according to you about coming too fast?
Since we have many erogunous zones, there are many ways to stimulate to achieve orgasm. One way may take longer than the other. You could also prolong the teasing before going for the hotspot, therefor prolonging the build-up. Before going into details, let me ask you: How do you achieve orgasm now?
Since you're new here, allow me to also point out the index. Here you will find an overview of interesting articles: http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/index-sexinfo101-board-topics/
Well i don't really feel anything when he is on top so I'm usually on top and as soon as it starts to feel good I cum and its over and I'm done I usually have to give him a bj which he doesn't mind.
Epic,
I suggest you and your boyfriend read the articles on this forum.
Both of you should read the "Pleasing Him", "Pleasing Her" and the "New To Sex" forums. Not only will this help both of you learn more about your own bodies, but it will also help give you ideas on how to make sex more enjoyable.
What exactly do you mean by done? You orgasm and begin to dry up? Or do you orgasm and assume that is the end? Some people genuinely cannot continue after their first orgasm, but many become incredibly sensitive immediately after and it is almost painful. This is usually interpretted as "I'm done", but it can be passed by simply backing off for a while, engaging in additional foreplay, and then continuing with foreplay.
Relax and keep going!
Keep at it until you come again, if he is treating you in the way he should then you should shoot.
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[color=green]lmao @ the contact info.......real smooth[/color]
[color=green]even as a guy, i don't stop after the first one......foreplay for a min and then go in for round 2[/color]
Masturbate before having sex. The second time will take a lot more time to climax. The third time is even crazier! That's when you can do "anything".
Thanks guys for all the info, I will try it out. And yes I'm younger 21, also I didn't see where I posted any contact info?
Many women, esp younger and less experienced, tend to think they operate the same way men do - one shot and then rest - NO! Women are 'gifted' with the ability to orgasm MANY times over without any need for resting inbetween.
Sexually speaking, any self-aware woman who embraces her sexuality can easily exhaust any number of men - even younger men.
So it isn't that you orgasm too fast - the problem is you're not orgasming AGAIN! Let it loose, hun!
Eek, once again you come through for me thanks everyone for the advice! I'm excited to say I came twice and it was amazing now I'm working doing more ;)
Say it with me "SEX IS GREAT!"
I think so, whenever I ever get with my partner to give to, totally enjoy giving and giving
You can NOT just give - you also have to take as well.
I also like same you
Yea why stop, I keep going and going it just makes me want to go faster faster!