Hi all,
I am curently with a girl who itruely truely love and she was a virgin and we had sex but thats not what im here for, I have a more umm personaly sexual problem i kinda come i bit early, inthe sense of all the time and its really embaressing and wondered if anyone knew anything i could do about it.
I would be really gratefull for anything you can tell me, as you can imagine its not easy talking about this.
From
invisible elliot
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I have been with my bf for 9 months and he still sometimes comes early!
I think it depends on how long the interval between the last time you had sex has been, and by how sexually aroused you are!
(hope this helps)
:)
Thanks to the two of you for posting, and, welcome to the SI101 Board and Forums.
As new folks to the community, I urge that each of you read the Posting Guidelines and learn how to use the site.
Your concerns are the most common we deal with. This means that there are just tons of discussions on the matter if you just look around before posting yet another in what has become a very very long list.
One of the many features of the forums is what are called "Sticky Posts". These remain at the top of each of the forums for quick and easy reference. There is also an Index that will take you to many of the most common discussions.
Here is a link to an article written and "stuck" for people who have your concern.
Squeeze & Training Exercise for Controling Premature Ejaculation
I hope this is of help. Got questions?
-Doc
Here is a post to read:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/sexual_health_men/19797-squeeze_and_trai...
It's helpful if you said how often you had sex? how long now? does it happen if you masturbate? Age? How fast is too fast?
Do her first and there is no problem. At your age, there is always the second go!
First of all, try regular condoms if you haven't already. They tend to desensitize the penis a little bit. If that doesn't work, try the condoms with the desensitizing lubricant in them.