ok well.
u can finish him off in a handjob right?
use ur hand to jerk him off but... have ur mouth over his head and suck it .
He will have the strong sensation u get during a handjob and he will have the warmth and sensitivity of gettin head

Personally as a bloke, I find receiving oral sex to just be foreplay. I don't cum anyway, but I'd rather save my strength for sex, which for most of us chaps is the goal anyway.

Cheers,

Ringo

I think there are probably lots of posts on here about this topic, but here are my two cents..

Make sure he's very well lubricated (with saliva or flavored body lube). Follow your mouth with your hand. Make a firm grip. (your hand would be an extension of your mouth)

Keep a steady rhythm and don't keep switching every two minutes. Listen to his breathing, try to go from there.

Yes, some men totally have a hang up about cumming during oral (damn those prissy girls who did that to them - makes us have to work so much harder!)

But there are lots of tips on here already about oral.

Good luck.

What women do, is sometimes they stop sucking their cock for a while, then they'll jerk them off for a bit, suck their cock again, stop again, and then jerk them off, that same cycle over again...that's an idea to make him cum. You see women do that in porn all the time.

uh, yeah, my girlfriend can't make me cum for the life of her. granted, she has only recently started trying, and she came close last friday, but quit because her jaw hurt (a problem i'm going to make another post about). anyway, from the oral i've gotten so far i can guess that it is lack of a steady rhythm that is keeping me from cumming.right when it's coming on, she switches to something else, and she changes before i can say wait, that's it, so she can't find the sweet spot quite fast enough to keep from missing a critical beat. i don't know if there's something i could do, or something she could do differently or what, but for the sake of satisfying her desire to please me, i'd like to be able to cum from oral.

Two ideas: 1. As he gets very close, cuddle his scrotum in your hand - gently - and pressup on the perineum between his scrotum and anus. 2. Making certain you are well lubricated, make a rapid switch from one end to the other while not missing a beat.

ive read on here several guys who can't really orgasm w/ oral.
its feels good but just can't finish off.
my b/f is kind of that way, if i do it takes me FOREVER but he really enjoys what im doing.
i guess ask your b/f to let you know when you hit the sweet spot or when you are doing something that feels extremely good.

First off, you're not alone!

I know before i got married, my GFs could blow me and i'd LOVE it and would cum buckets. Then i met my future wife, who saw oral sex as foreplay..and did NOT want me to cum in her mouth under ANY circumstances. Over the 3 years we dated....it became part of our lovemaking that oral sex was for foreplay.....and so it got engrained that i shoudon't do that to the person iloved because she asked me not to!

So, to make a long story short, i cannot cum from oral sex from my partner because my inner voice tells me "You don't cum in the mouths of people you love".......a stranger....NO PROBLEM!...my partner...nope!

So, here's the deal.....unless you make if VERY CLEAR you want him to cum in your mouth..that you WANT it..that it will make YOU happy to have him cum in your mouth.....he won't be able to!

ALso, alot has to do with the swallow or spit thing. I have found that people who just move their head to the side and expel my cum like it's bad milk...really cause me to re-think cumming in their mouth. I know it's their decision to swallow ornot..but quite honestly.....it feels like passive rejection!

So, if oyu're going to spit, do it discreetly...or just swallow.

i have the same problem with my boyfriend. we have been together for nine months now and i still cant make him cum, using my hand or mouth :/... he says its just him but it really worries me because he has to finish his self off and i feel kinda guilty :(

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