What follows are some posts I've contributed to on different threads about this matter. I hope by reading and understanding the importance of making out and its various steps that this will help change the course of future events. Please read my reply(s) to each as well as the entire threads.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/sexual_health_men/18594-trouble_cumming....

http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_him/18244-increasing_my_confide...

http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_her/17486-fondling_doesnt_turn_...

The following set of replies were written for a woman; however, the information holds for a guy wanting to caress a gal.

http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_him/17196-turning_him_on.html?h...

I hope these responses will be of help. Got questions?