Well, my girlfriend and I have been having sexual intercourse and doing sexual activities for quite a while now. We have sex and she also gives me a blowjob. However, I can never cum. it might be because i am thinking about other stuff, but even if i don't, i just don't cum. she even gives me head after and a handjob and i still don't cum. i come close to cumming sometimes but i just as masturbate as she watches me and I cum.
Tue, 04/28/2009 - 00:53
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I can't cum
What do you think about sex? Is sex good or bad? Is being sexual a good thing? How frequently do you masturbate? How do you feel about women who enjoy sex? How stressed are you? Are you hydrated? Are you too used to your own touch? Do you not want to give up control by having an orgasm? Are you just not that into your girlfriend and don't want to tell her?
Any or all of the above can stop an orgasm from ever happening - yes, even with men.
Examine three areas closely:
1. physical/medical issues such as being hydrated, relaxed and aroused.
2. mental issues such as opinions/attitudes toward sex
3. emotional issues such as lack of trust between you and your partner, etc.
Thank you kitten. I will let you know after some hardcore thinking.
Please read this article on the matter listed in the Index:
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
Also check this out. This could be you:
http://www.healthystrokes.com/
It is me and I can't cum either.
It doesn't bother me of course, but I can see how it could be bothersome....
Cheers!
I find it a bit odd that this http://www.healthystrokes.com/ isn't a sticky. It's a surprisingly common event. Yahoo's support group for this has 1,000's of members.
Anyways... I do my part to spread the word.