i am a 21 ur old female and i have been having sex for 4 yrs....and i used to be able to ejaculate especially when i was on top. For yrs i have been masterbating in a very odd way....i litterally stradle a pile of pillows and allow my toy to stroke my g-spot and it gives be quick sensational orgasms. However, it seems like it has changed how my body acts during sex. Ive been with this guy for two ys, and at first i "rode him" pretty well (ive always been good at that) but this past yr my hip action is slowed and i cant keep my pelvis thrusting like i used to. Now i have gained about 5 lbs around my belly and my man has a pretty big blly that has gotten alittle larger over these last few yrs. So what im wondering, is do yall think my pelvis thrusting has slowed tremendously because when i masterbate i dont thrust i just rub? or do you think its because we both gained weight? This is REALLy bothering me because i get embarresed sense now he always is on top doing most of the work. and i know he loves me on top. Does anyone have any suggestions? maybe even some girl on top tips when the guy is bigger?
ps he does have a small penis, but that was never a problem
thank you, i agree i guess i just dont know what to do abt it:confused:
well me and ma gf were havin a wee think bout this 1, we think that it could be that ur too used rubbin on ur toy, we think that cos uv been rubbin on ur toy alot then thats kinda knocked u out of ur rythm.
we dont think its really gt anythin to do wi ur/his weight.
owel we culd be wrong but hey we tried lol
i do notice a difference when i have some extra weight on me...i do know that the riding of a man helps me loose weight also