Hey , i am the agresssive type i gus 
! and it doesnt really bug me to make the first move, and i am usally atracted to guys the are on the shy side(oppisite of me!) But i am going out with a new guy now and he is 2 years older than me so i thought the whole move making would be mostly him, and i kinda exspected a lil pressure too, but there wasnt and it was me that made the first move agien! 
am i jus being impatient or what? we have been going out for about a month now and it is still up to me to kiss him, rarely if ever has he kissed me 
, i would love it if HE kissed ME for a change or jus outa the blue! and b/c we havent really been goign out that lon, we are not to the point of doing other "stuff", but when it gets to that point i want him to do hte move making not me!what can i say to him or what hints do i need to drop to let him know what i want or how i feel!
Help me out here?!? 
thanks !
Sun, 11/16/2003 - 20:24
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I am always the one to make the move!
[QUOTE=Quote (Saxiif @ Nov. 26 2003,05:00)]Yup, we're pretty stupid like that. But then women seem to detect obvious hints from us that we never know about...[/QUOTE]
i think he means you guys pick up hints that we never make or dont realize we made
hmm.. when my gf drops hints i always pick them up.. and if i drop one and she doesnt pick it up.. then i will just make the move..
Yup, we're pretty stupid like that. But then women seem to detect obvious hints from us that we never know about...
OK than what are some hints guys give girls to let them kjnow they want to do something?
I mean mabey he is giving them to me now, i jus havent noticed them 
? 
[QUOTE=Quote (demonbuttercup @ Nov. 19 2003,19:48)][/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Quote ]well w/ my experience guys dont really understand the concept of "hints"[/QUOTE]
Yup, we're pretty stupid like that. But then women seem to detect obvious hints from us that we never know about...
Thanks for all the advice, but one more lil thing.... he is kinda shy, how can i get him to open up to me a little more?
you know make him comfotable enought to at least?
If you're going to do hints, make them strong and pretty obvious. Most guys stumble through life trying to figure out the hints women throw at us and failing most of the time. If he's shy, he'll be even worse, since he's probably afraid of doing something wrong/ that you won't like.
well w/ my experience guys dont really understand the concept of "hints"
like ill "hint" to my b/f that i want to fool around or whatever and he never catches on to them...
then the next day ill mention i wanted to do something and he's like why didn't you say something and ill say we'll i hinted and he's like ... you have to just tell me what you want..lol.
otherwise i guess if its that you want him to kiss you just give him a sexy look or something and give him time.
maybe he's just shy and hesitant to make his move and before he can get the nerve up to do it... you've already made it for him.
set it up so that either he makes a move or nothing happens, then maybe he'll catch on.
the thing ive learnt about relationships is 2 hints, then you have to come out with it, there is not point worrying or htinking bout it, confront him and tell him how you feel...its the 'only' way! tell him you need that attention and how you want him to come to you and initate the moves.
good luck