my girlfriend and I have sex 3 or 4 times and she says it only hurt when i stick it in but once its in its fine... why is that and does it stop?
Tue, 01/13/2004 - 04:56
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hurts her when it penetrates
that would be my guess, that shes not loosened up yet. When you first go into her, she has to get use to it a little bit... you said you've only had sex a few times so thats very likely. If thats what it is, im sure you know this but... it'll stop when she gets use to it w/ a little time.
WEll shes pretty wet because we play around before it, and i feel with my fingers... we used condoms. i was thinking maybe she hasnt loosened up yet
It could be that she might not be wet enough. Also could be that you're going in too fast. Also (boy...rejoyce) could be that you're pretty big and she's pretty small. My bf and I almost constantly have that problem. What we do is we make sure that I'm very turned on, lubricated enough and he takes it slow or even lets me control it at first. Also what helps is doing it more often, at least it helped me.
Hard to say since you didn't provide many details. If it only hurts when ur first going in maybe she isn't wet enough. Also are you using a condom or not? Because I have noticed with my girlfriend that when not using a condom(she's on birth control) even if she is wet it can be hard to get in if I'm not lubricated at all, but a blowjob normally solves this problem. I suppose that could cause the initial pain you're describing. All that to say: maybe she isn't wet enough right away.